Chapter 66 A good start (Part 2)
"You make your own decision, this..."
There is naturally no problem with Song Qian's understanding ability. But suddenly saying that she wanted her daughter to make the decision herself really caught her off guard.
She simply thought that what she was going to talk about tonight was just the topic of "Nan University", but she didn't expect that this topic was just an introduction.
But the real thing to talk about is the way she gets along with her daughter.
"No, Yingzi is still young and cannot be left to make her own decisions."
Song Qian glared at Chen Tao and still rejected the proposal.
"Well, I won't argue with you about whether Yingzi at this age is considered an adult. I just want to know how many years do you plan to let Yingzi be independent? As long as you can give an exact time point, and Yingzi agrees, then I I have no objection.”
Chen Tao said calmly.
"The specific time depends on Yingzi's performance, but it's not possible now anyway."
Song Qian thought for a while and felt that she still had to control her daughter.
"I think Yingzi is very sensible. Whether it is life or study, she performs very well, no worse than Zhitao. She can live independently, so Yingzi can naturally do the same... Or do you think Yingzi is not as good as others?"
Chen Tao asked dissatisfiedly.
Song Qian was asked.
Is Qiao Yingzi not as good as Huang Zhitao?
She could say that, but what would Yingzi think?
Song Qian avoided answering, but looked at her daughter, and said sadly with tears in her eyes:
"Yingzi, did your mother do something bad that made you dissatisfied? That's why you thought about leaving me..."
Qiao Yingzi couldn't stand this. She was a little shaken, but her father stepped on her under the table.
He immediately came back to his senses, controlled his emotions and said:
"Mom, you are good at everything. I have always been satisfied with you and never thought of leaving you. But I am not a child anymore, and I am different from before. I have things I like and things I want to do. And you can’t support me.”
Song Qian said sincerely: "It's not that mom doesn't support you, you are in your third year of high school and can't be distracted by irrelevant things. In this way, after the college entrance examination is over, I will..."
Chen Tao interrupted: "Okay, after the college entrance examination is over, I will buy Yingzi a house and let her live independently outside."
Song Qian said angrily: "Qiao Weidong! You did it on purpose, right? You don't need to worry about Yingzi and I."
Chen Tao said calmly: "You can't always control Yingzi. This is a fact. Whether you are willing to accept it or not, she will start her own family sooner or later... What will you do then? Seriously, you are still here Look at Yingzi from the perspective of the past. You are still living in the past, thinking that Yingzi will never grow up and will always need you to protect her. But in fact, Yingzi is better than you and me. She is enough If a top talent from Qingbei is admitted, do we really need to tell her what to do? Think about it carefully!"
Song Qian fell into silence.
She came back to her senses only when the waiter brought the dinner plate and knocked on the private room door.
"Yingzi, eat first, and we'll talk after you're done."
With that said, Chen Tao took a sip of the appetizing soup.
"Um."
Qiao Yingzi smiled sweetly.
She adores her dad so much. She really didn't expect that this usually aloof father could really defend her mother...
In fact, if she hadn't persisted, Chen Tao's words would not have had any effect.
***
After meal.
Chen Tao didn't drink and drove the mother and daughter back to Shuxiang Yayuan.
Room 403.
Song Qian, who had just finished taking a shower, came to the room that was comparable to a prison visiting room, sat on the edge of the bed, and said to her daughter who was reading seriously:
"Yingzi, I really care about you for your own good. I don't want to control you, I just think that you are still young and a student, and you don't understand many things, so I sometimes make decisions for you."
Song Qian did change a little, but only a little.
If Qiao Yingzi is not determined, Song Qian may change back at any time.
Qiao Yingzi hummed, expressing that she understood very well, and then followed the method her father had just taught her, and smiled at Song Qian:
"Mom, I want to eat fried chicken steak, but the oil outside is dirty. Can you cook it for me tomorrow?"
Song Qian tried to persuade: "Fried food is unhealthy, let's stop eating it, right?"
In the past, after hearing this, Qiao Yingzi would definitely not insist on eating.
But now she sighed: "But I really want to eat it Mom, just make it for me once. The oil at home is very clean, and everything will be fine."
Song Qian frowned: "Yingzi, are you..."
Qiao Yingzi interrupted: "This is what I'm saying. I really want to eat it. I don't mean to embarrass you. I didn't say it before because I was afraid you wouldn't agree."
I don’t want to agree now!
But……
Song Qian struggled for a moment, and finally said helplessly: "Okay, Mom will do it for you."
Qiao Yingzi was very happy: "Mom, you are so kind"
Song Qian struck while the iron was hot: "As for the matter of getting admitted to Nanjing University..."
Qiao Yingzi reiterated: “I don’t have to go to Nanda.”
But if you don’t give me freedom, then I must go to Nanda and stay away from you!
Based on her father's instructions and her mother's reactions, Qiao Yingzi became more and more convinced that as long as she took the initiative and stopped being so obedient and "sensible", her mother would eventually compromise on her.
In my father's words, whoever gives more affection will be easier to manipulate.
Before today, Song Qian would rather make Qiao Yingzi unhappy than control her; Qiao Yingzi would rather be unhappy herself, but also obey Song Qian and understand her hard work.
Obviously, Qiao Yingzi is the one who devotes more emotions, so she has no resistance to Song Qian.
But it's different now.
Tonight's conversation made Qiao Yingzi clearly realize that her mother also has weaknesses that she can manipulate, and her mother will not be as sad as she imagined...
If being sad can make her precious daughter "change her mind", then Song Qian can definitely act heartbroken.
However, Qiao Yingzi is determined, and there is Scumbag Qiao to seduce and support her, so what's the use of her being sad?
It is better to repair the relationship first, and then work on it slowly, so as not to quarrel with each other, arouse strong resentment in my daughter, and completely push her to Zha Qiao's side...
And if Yingzi could still be manipulated by Song Qian under such circumstances, then she really deserved to be controlled, and her clever little brain was in vain.
"Yingzi, mom understands you and is willing to let you make your own decisions. But you also have to understand mom's difficulties. Mom really cares about you for your own good!"
"Mom, don't worry, I have never blamed you. It's just that I have grown up and really need some private space. Just like this glass, it makes me feel very uncomfortable, like being in prison... …Don’t roll up the curtain in the future, okay?”
"This...I..."
"After my father heard that I didn't like the glass, he gave me the key to his house a long time ago, but I never lived there because I just didn't want to leave you. So, I hope you, mother, can understand how I feel."
"Okay, okay...this bastard Qiao Weidong!"