Vol 3 Chapter 160: Patriarchal thoughts 2 (five shifts)

Vol 3 Chapter 160: Patriarchal thoughts 2 (five shifts)

An Xiaohui laughed at herself and said bitterly, "My parents are so cruel to me, but I can't ignore them. Doesn't it sound like a little foolish filial piety?"

There will be such a scene in many online news or on TV. Many native families are just like her birth. Therefore, when those people grow up and have the ability and can make money, they will break away from the native family and sever the relationship. There was no news for 20 years, until the parents wanted to see them for the last time, they asked someone to help find them, and then there was a lot of noise on the Internet.

Some people call this really ruthless. No matter how bad the original family is to you, they are your parents, your closest person, and the person who raised you since you were a child. Oh, now that I am promising, I just blame my parents or something, what a white-eyed wolf.

Others say that without suffering others, don’t persuade others to be kind.

In short, everything is said.

Situations like An Xiaohui were actually harmed by backward rural feudal ideology. But An Xiaohui’s parents only had one daughter, and they didn’t like her since childhood, but at least they didn’t beat and scold her at all, and at least allowed her to eat and wear warmth so that she could go to school like everyone else.

Although they prevented her from entering the university, her parents still paid her tuition after she was admitted to the university. In addition to living expenses, she borrowed or figured out a way to earn her.

It's just that An Xiaohui's parents, when they met An Yang, they took An Yang into consideration, and they became angry with An Xiaohui's daughter, and even beat and scolded her!

Therefore, it is impossible for An Xiaohui to sever the relationship between her parents and her parents.

Xiao Lingyu shook his head and said, "Oh, I don't think you are a dutiful person. After all, they are your biological parents and raised you. Although emotionally, they are partial and even unfair, but they are also At least you did some things your parents should do and fulfilled your obligation to support them. When they get old, you will naturally have to fulfill your obligation to support them."

"Besides, what is foolish filial piety? Foolish filial piety is to be considerate to your parents, do everything possible to please your parents, and will not refuse any request of your parents. But you are not. You are very clear. When you should be filial to your parents, be filial. But when you refuse to request your parents, you must also clearly refuse. In fact, you have to be filial to your parents, not filial to your parents!" Xiao Lingyu said.

An Xiaohui felt a little better when Xiao Lingyu said this.

In fact, it is true.

Her current salary is two million yuan per year, but she did not give all the money to her parents. She pays her parents a monthly allowance of 3,000 yuan, and then in the season, she also pays some holiday expenses, 2,000 yuan.

His parents have a house in the county, and they don't have to repay the loan, and they don't have other debts. The living expenses of three thousand yuan is enough for them.

Of course, her salary is not clear to the family.

All they know is that she works in a well-known large company with a monthly salary of tens of thousands.

Just because of the tens of thousands of wages, the parents received three thousand yuan for living expenses, which is not enough. Under the instigation of some people, the parents kept asking her for money and making various excuses.

But the most common excuse is an excuse for illness. It costs two thousand to catch a cold today, and three thousand to make a film with back pain and leg pain tomorrow.

An Xiaohui could not confirm whether his parents were sick, and An Xiaohui could not refuse to ask for money as an excuse for being sick. But An Xiaohui knew very well in her heart that it was fake for her parents to be sick and asking for the money to be true, and after the money was obtained, it would definitely be transferred to An Yang for use.

Otherwise, An Yang hasn't worked for the past two years, playing games and sleeping at home all the time, so where is the money used.

An Xiaohui knew this in her heart, but she was helpless.

Because this has been the case since childhood, everything in her hands or in their hands will be in An Yang's hands the next day.

Xiao Lingyu said, "Xiaohui, haven't you ever thought about asking a nanny to take care of your parents? In this way, you can take care of your parents, and secondly, you can always know their condition. They keep getting sick. It’s not a matter of excuses. They don’t know that your annual salary is two million. If they do, they will definitely find a way to squeeze out all the money in your hands."

For having such a pair of parents, Xiao Lingyu feels very sorry for An Xiaohui as the person next to her. However, when a person is born, he cannot choose his parents.

Even if the parents are no longer, they have the grace to nurture themselves, and the filial piety that children should respect is still to be respected.

But this kind of filial piety can never let them endlessly demand it.

An Xiaohui smiled bitterly, "I thought about it too, but they refused. They felt that instead of spending the money for a nanny, they might as well save the money and give it directly to An Yang."

Xiao Lingyu was speechless at once.

An Xiaohui's parents are so dedicated to An Yang, and it must be very happy for An Yang, but for An Xiaohui, it is a huge harm.

Xiao Lingyu thought for a while and said, "Xiaohui, your parents have always regretted that no one inherited the clan. Following the incense, they are even more worried about not throwing a bowl after death. Haven't you considered solving the problem fundamentally?"

After listening, An Xiaohui asked with a look of doubt and surprise, "Sister Ling Yu, what do you mean by this?"

"Don't you talk to your parents, if you get married, the first boy is named An, as their grandsons, in the future, they will have grandsons to wrestle for them?" Xiao Lingyu said speechlessly.

"Huh?" An Xiaohui was a little dazed.

They hadn't talked about this before, and after she knew that her parents could not give birth, her grandparents directly took charge, and later let the second uncle's son give his parents a dumpling.

In the consciousness of An's father and An's mother, it was determined that An Yang was the one who threw their bowls afterwards.

Therefore, asking An Xiaohui to find a man to be the door-to-door son-in-law, and so on, has not considered.

As for An Xiaohui's influence from her family since she was a child, she has never considered this aspect.

Looking at An Xiaohui's expression, Xiao Lingyu was immediately sure that they must have never thought about it or talked about it.

Xiao Lingyu sighed lightly, patted her hand, and said, "Xiaohui, maybe you can talk to your parents about this matter. After all, it is better to have your own grandson than a nephew."

An Xiaohui's expression was obviously a little bit unimaginable, she asked, "Sister Ling Yu, is this all right?"

Xiao Lingyu said, "Can it be done? You have to talk about it first, right?"

The symptoms of An Xiaohui's parents have always been people who didn't inherit the lineage, and there were no people who wrestled after their deaths.

Perhaps only by solving this crux, An Xiaohui's life can be restored to peace.

But An Xiaohui still hesitated, "But Sister Ling Yu, let my child be named An. Isn't that a door-to-door son-in-law?"