Chapter 918: Only self-love is worthy of being cherished!
Jiang Chunhong shook his head with a slight sigh, and said, "It's not the poor who make trouble!"
Immediately, Jiang Chunhong told Jing Qing all the information she had heard and learned.
Shen Bei's parents were not natives of the capital at first. They settled down in the capital in 1962. Who would have thought that two years after they settled down, they encountered ten years of turmoil!
At that time, Father Shen also relied on calligraphy and painting for a living. As a result, the Wen G turmoil began, and all books, calligraphy and paintings had to be confiscated. Shen’s father was a person who loved calligraphy and painting very much. , injured his right leg, and Shen Bei's eldest brother, Shen Nan, injured his left eye in order to protect Shen's father. Later, due to the lack of timely treatment, the vision of his left eye could hardly be seen clearly!
A family who was lazy to survive was gone, and valuable items were taken away. Immediately, the living conditions of the family were very poor!
At that time, Shen Nan had only been married for more than a year and had just given birth to a daughter, and Shen Bei was only seventeen years old. The two pillars of the family were seriously injured. Immediately after, in less than half a year, Shen Bei's mother died of illness.
Shen's father's condition worsened, and he could only stay in bed. The eldest son, Shen Nan, could not see because of the injury to his left eye, so he had to wear a blindfold. Therefore, Shen Nan could only be idle at home and take some energy.
Fortunately, Shen Nan's daughter-in-law is a person who values friendship and does not despise the Shen family. A woman supports all the work in the family and takes good care of the family!
After three years, Shen Nan and his daughter-in-law gave birth to another son, and life was even tighter. Even when there was a famine in the family, the city was no better than the country, and they could go to work to earn work points, and there were production teams to distribute food. You can also go into the mountains to get some wild vegetables and wild meat!
Therefore, Shen Bei took a risk and started to speculate!
In the first few years, the life of the Shen family has indeed changed a lot. Five years ago, Shen Bei was introduced by someone and married a woman from a surrounding township.
In the beginning, the family was He and Meimei, and within half a year, the two husbands and wives started to quarrel. Once, once, the commotion was quite big, and many of the surrounding neighbors knew about it!
The reason is very simple. Shen Bei's daughter-in-law disapproves of Shen Bei's use of the home he earned to support the entire family. As a result, the couple's small home is also very tight.
In fact, Shen Bei's daughter-in-law was unwilling, and Shen Bei had to subsidize his eldest brother's family of four, which felt burdensome! Of course Shen Bei would not agree too much!
In the end, when Shen Bei went to the countryside to collect supplies, his daughter-in-law took the family's money and ran off with a man!
The life at home was just a little better, but as a result, the little money that was saved was stolen! This undoubtedly made things worse for the Shen family.
The two brothers Shen Bei searched for several days, but there was no news, and no one from their parents' family came back. A few days later, when a neighbor said that he saw his daughter-in-law follow a man on the train, Shen Bei gave up the search.
For the past three years, Shen Bei has always been a bachelor! There were also many neighbors who wanted to introduce him to girls from relatives in the countryside, but he did not agree.
Since then, Shen Bei has been thinking about making money. The family doesn't have any connections or connections in the capital, so they can't work in the factory at all.
There are so many mouths to eat at home, and there is an old father who is sick in bed. He has to take medicine all the year round. Without money, the burden is even heavier!
Shen Bei only relied on the relationship that was tumbling in the past, and accumulated a little bit again. In the past year or two, it gradually improved! Although it can't be said that there is much surplus, at least, the family will no longer have to starve and freeze, and they will be able to live a good life!
But there is an old father at home who needs to take medicine all the year round, these days, it will not be good there! Taking medicine is a huge expense!
After speaking, Jiang Chunhong sighed and said: "So! The Shen family is still very good, but they don't have a good relationship and can only make a living on their own! This year, everyone's life has been much better, no There will be no food to eat again, so there are also a lot of old neighbors who are looking for Shen Bei to buy supplies! Now, I don’t know where he resells!”
As a postmodern person, Jing Qingxin has naturally heard a lot of stories like this, but she is not as sighed as Jiang Chunhong!
In fact, the story of "poor and lowly married couples grieve for everything" has happened all the time since ancient times.
She has no position to criticize the woman who eloped with others. After all, everyone's pursuits are different, but Jing Qing believed in her heart that such a sample woman would never have a good outcome!
By doing that, she is undoubtedly telling everyone that she is a woman who doesn't respect herself and doesn't love herself. Then, how can a woman who doesn't even know how to love herself have a man who cherishes her?
Women, only when they know how to love and respect themselves, will there be more and better men who cherish you and respect you! If you don't even know how to take good care of yourself, why would you expect someone to take care of you?
Only when you love yourself can you be cherished!
Moreover, Jing Qingxin also firmly believed that the man who eloped with her would never be a good person!