Chapter 313: i'm not a good mom 3
The door challenged the old lady: "Liu Minghua is back, let him wash it."
Your face is so thick!"
"Why should I be embarrassed?" Wang Qingqing was indifferent to Cai Yuzhen's verbal attack: "I'm not feeling well and resting for a few days and not doing housework is shameless? According to your standard, then everyone in this family will be They have thicker skin than mine."
Cai Yuzhen was furious, but Wang Qingqing's words made her unable to refute, because most of the housework in this family was done by the daughter-in-law.
The oldest person in the family, Cai Yuzhen and her wife Liu Dongfang, the old man and the old lady are getting older and sleep less. Every day they wake up when the bird calls. At this time, the sky is still numb and dark. Come and drink a glass of honey water, and go to the small park next door to exercise.
Qingqing had already eaten breakfast and went to work. At this time, the old couple called their son and grandson to have breakfast. After breakfast, the one who should go to work and the one who should be sent to school go to school.
Lu Minghua and Mei Qingqing both had lunch at the work unit. The old couple only had to take care of their own lunch. At five o'clock in the afternoon, Mei Qingqing went home from get off work, and Cai Yuzhen and the old couple went out to pick up the iron Son.
Mei Qingqing would buy groceries on the way home from get off work and start preparing dinner directly when she got home, and the old couple would take him to play in the small park after picking up the steel scorpion from the kindergarten.
Bowl to clean up the kitchen.
After washing the dishes, Mei Qingqing can play for a while with Gang Jun’er under the eyes of the whole family, or tell the child two stories, or play with the toys for a while, at half past eight Gang Jun'er began to wash up, and Mei Qingqing cleaned up the hygienic and scattered toys.
At nine o’clock Gang Jun’er goes to bed, Mei Qingqing can also participate in the child’s sleep coaxing session. After Gang Jun’er falls asleep, Mei Qingqing has to wash his clothes. You can't put your clothes in the washing machine to wash with adults, it's unsanitary, so all Gang Dung'er's clothes have to be hand-washed by Mei Qingqing.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law's clothes do not need to be washed by Mei Qingqing, because Cai Yuzhen is a very particular person, and to avoid suspicion, she washes the old couple's clothes by herself.
And on the weekends, Mei Qingqing will not only be responsible for the three meals, but also have a weekend cleaning, tidy up and clean the house, and then make a big purchase to remove the daily necessities that are consumed every day. All additions, it is actually busier than in the week.
Seriously speaking, what Cai Yuzhen is responsible for is to take Gang Lung'er to kindergarten every morning and evening, as well as the old couple's own lunch and a change of clothes.
As for Liu Dongfang and Liu Minghua's father and son, they don't do any housework. In Cai Yuzhen's words, housework is a woman's job. I haven't seen any master. Women who wash clothes and cook every day, and women who want men to do housework, are either lazy or have no heart in this family.
Mei Qingqing is by no means a lazy person. She and Liu Minghua began to fall in love when she was a student, and Liu Minghua accompanied her through the difficult road of seeking a child for so many years. She protects her when she is dissatisfied, so on the basis of deep feelings, Mei Qingqing still has some indescribable gratitude towards Liu Minghua, so she has no opinion on Cai Yuzhen's words.
You love me, so protect me, I love you, so I am willing to take care of you and take care of this family.
Mei Qingqing is willing to take care of her family and do housework, but Wang Qingqing is not willing.
The original owner needed so many fetus injections throughout the pregnancy. Poor physique was one reason, but too much stress and fatigue were also important factors.
Now that Wang Qingqing is replaced in this body, she naturally does not have any mental pressure, the only thing to do now is to make this body not too tired, to maintain adequate rest and good sleep quality, so Despite Cai Yuzhen's constant babble, Wang Qingqing still sat firmly on the Diaoyutai, lying motionless on the bed.
In the blink of an eye, Liu Minghua got off work and had to leave the past. At this time, Mei Qingqing had almost prepared dinner. There was an evil fire in my heart.
It's inappropriate to attack my wife, and it's too much to attack my wife. Liu Minghua washed his hands and went into the kitchen with a sullen face: "I'm going to cook."
When she heard Liu Minghua was going to cook, Cai Yuzhen jumped three feet high: "How can you cook? I have never let you in the kitchen since I was a child, what would you do?"
"What if you don't? Don't have dinner?" Liu Minghua was expressionless.
Is it a real mother, she is reluctant to let her son work, Cai Yuzhen mumbles to cook, she is angry, when cooking, she naturally smashes pots and bowls, and one person ruins the whole family The atmosphere became tense. Liu Dongfang was smoking on the balcony, and Liu Minghua was sitting on the sofa watching TV. The two of them didn't say a word.
No Mei Qingqing buys vegetables every day, and there are not many ingredients left at home. Cai Yuzhen made a large plate of tomatoes and eggs, and also made a large plate of fried shredded pork with potatoes.
The rice was cooked, Cai Yuzhen angrily brought it to the table, Liu Minghua went to the bedroom and asked Wang Qingqing to eat, Wang Qingqing slowly moved to the dining room with Liu Minghua's help, Cai Yuzhen was still muttering: " I’m in my 70s and 80s, and I can’t be invited until the meal is ready and served on the table. Is this marrying a daughter-in-law? It’s obviously a living ancestor!”
Wang Qingqing began to cry before she could sit firmly in the chair: "Mom, just because I'm unwell made you cook a meal and you just kill me? Then you had appendicitis surgery last year. Why didn't you say that I was your ancestor when you asked for a fake feces and urine to serve you?"
Cai Yuzhen was so angry that she threw the chopsticks in her hand: "You! It's only right and proper for a daughter-in-law to serve her mother-in-law..."
It was neither right or wrong nor judged who was right and who was wrong, Liu Dongfang used the majesty of his own parents to forcefully suppress the conflict, Wang Qingqing said nothing, raised his chopsticks and started After eating, Cai Yuzhen was sulking for a while, and started to eat.
The atmosphere at the dinner table was depressed, no one said anything, only Gang Ronger hummed: "I want to eat meat, I want to eat meat."
"Okay, I'll give you some meat." Cai Yuzhen really loves Gang Dung'er. As soon as she heard the child humming, she immediately took her own chopsticks and rummaged through the shredded potatoes. , pick out the shredded meat inside and put it into a steel bowl.
Wang Qingqing put down her chopsticks and said to Gang Chun'er: "Gang Chun'er, picky eaters love to get sick. They want to eat meat and vegetables. Take your own chopsticks to pick up vegetables from the side close to you. what to eat."
Gang Dung'er has always wanted anything since he was a child. He never felt that he needed to listen to his mother, so he directly rejected Wang Qingqing's request: "I don't! I have meat."
"Okay, grandma will put it on the steel rod." Cai Yuzhen continued to pick chopsticks on the plate, squinting her eyes and said strangely: "This is because she is angry with me. Are you not satisfied? If you have something to say, why are you puffing at the child?"
"Mom, since you asked me to make it clear, then I will make it clear, I think you have a problem with the education of Gang Dung'er." Wang Qingqing calmly reasoned: "A big family is eating here. , Gang Luer wants to eat meat, so you turn it over and over on the plate, first of all, your behavior encourages the bad habits of picky eaters in children, and secondly, it is also a very rude behavior, I hope you will not do this again in the future."
Cai Yuzhen froze as soon as she heard Wang Qingqing's words, she slapped her chopsticks on the dining table and started shouting: "My old lady has lived such a long life. I made it and brought it to the table, but you are still not satisfied? I'm rude, why am I rude? Our old Liu family tradition, if there is a good thing, we have to give it to the children and the elderly to eat first. It's been this way for so many years. , are you picking on my rudeness now?"
After walking out of society, and still acting as he likes at home, who will treat him? When he is laughed at and has no family education, he is unhappy, and we will also be embarrassed, right?"
Wang Qingqing spoke in a soft voice, and spoke her truth to the Liu family seriously.
The mission released by the original body is "to be a good mother". There is no clear standard for this mission. In Wang Qingqing's mind, if you want to be a "good mother", you must raise your children well, as in A child who grows up in the atmosphere of "the whole family has to let me" is bound to be selfish, just like the Gang Chun'er in the original plot. If she raises such a child, it will definitely not be considered a good job. Mom, so she has to correct this problem.
Cai Yuzhen refused to understand her painstaking efforts. After Wang Qingqing said this, Cai Yuzhen kept sneering at her: "I understand, your feelings are still going towards the steel. of!"
My child, I hope from the bottom of my heart that he will be well, how can I be angry with him." Wang Qingqing tried to reason with Cai Yuzhen.
"Tsk tsk, old Liu, listen to me, son, listen to me, what a nice thing to say, you're all for the good of the gangster, but it seems that I won't take the child and teach the gangster bad. Son."
Married him too? Now you say we can’t raise children? If there is something wrong with our education methods, why are you marrying Minghua?”
"In the final analysis, you still have your own flesh and blood in your belly, and you start to look at the boy Gang Jun'er is not pleasing to the eye, and try to find faults, I tell you Mei Qingqing, as long as I live , you don't even want to practice steel scorpion!"
Cai Yuzhen finished talking to Wang Qingqing aggressively, picked up her chopsticks and picked it up more and more on the plate: "What is rude or rude, this is my own home, how I love to spoil my grandson me Just love it, if you don't like it, get out of here."
The outline is online."
In this case, it is obviously unrealistic to continue to educate children, Wang Qingqing shrugged and closed her mouth.
After eating, Wang Qingqing slowly moved back to the bedroom and lay down. She had to be careful. , it would be bad if she accidentally lost the face in her stomach.
She moved back to the room, and after a little wash, she lay down directly. After a while, Liu Minghua came in: "How do you feel now?"
"What are you going to do after this week's sick leave expires? Continue to ask for leave or go back to work?" Liu Minghua sat on the bed and looked at her.
"I plan to quit my job and start my own business after the child is born."
Low, but the salary income of the working class is definitely not enough for Wang Qingqing.
Although people's happiness index is not absolutely related to the amount of material they have, the happiness that the poor can experience is limited after all. Isn't there a golden sentence circulating on the Internet? Don't think that rich people are necessarily unhappy, in fact, you can't experience the happiness of rich people at all.
Wang Qingqing agreed with this sentence. A good mother should do her best to provide better living conditions for her children. Like the original owner, she made the decision to resign during pregnancy.
Only hard work can earn a day. This process requires a lot of time, energy and physical strength, and these are the things that Wang Qingqing lacks the most.
So she is not going to waste time in this industry. For her, the most important thing at the moment is raising a child. After the child is born, she can find a time that is relatively free and easy to earn money. Plan to do it.
As soon as Wang Qingqing said he resigned, Liu Minghua paused. He frowned slightly and stared at Wang Qingqing for a while before saying: "I don't agree with your resignation, you have the most experience in this industry, you resign at this time. , the previous struggles are all in vain, and you say that you want to start a business, but how easy is it to start a business? You are 37 years old this year, not a 27-year-old young man. You know what's going on in our family, then You can’t lose what you earn, if you struggle for a few years and fail to start a business, we won’t be able to turn around when we die of old age, you know?”
"I know." Wang Qingqing put down the book in his hand and nodded: "But according to my physical condition, it must be common to ask for leave in the future, can the company tolerate me? You can also see the attitude, they don’t expect this child in my womb, even if I give birth to the child, I don’t think they will bring it to me, how can I go to work in this situation?”
"Since you can think of all these difficulties, why do you insist on having this child?" Liu Minghua frowned: "Isn't it enough for us to have a child? Do you have to take such a big risk and sacrifice your career for a fetus who doesn't know if it can survive? Qingqing, Gang Dung'er is also your own child."
"Minghua, you don't understand." Wang Qingqing sighed with tears in her eyes: "You see how much I suffered and how much I suffered to conceive a child back then. , the child who I can't beg for is now in my stomach, how can I be willing to kill him? You don't need to talk about this matter, there is no room for negotiation. "
Wang Qingqing was firm, Liu Minghua didn't say a word, he was very reluctant to have his wife have another child.
The income level of him and Mei Qingqing is not bad for the working class, but they cannot afford to spend too much. Liu and Mei are both ordinary families. Parents are unable to buy real estate for them, and the young couple have been renting to live.
After renting a house for two or three years, they managed to save a little money. save.
It wasn't until Mei Qingqing gave birth to Gang Dung's son that Liu Dongfang and Cai Yuzhen sold their husband's house, which was more than 70 square meters, and added their years of savings to Liu Minghua. The down payment on the house also paid for the renovation.
This tossing has drained the accumulation of Liu Dongfang and Cai Yuzhen for many years. Only Liu Dongfang has a retirement salary for the old couple, and the help they can give them in the future is extremely limited.
Fortunately, both Liu Minghua and Mei Qingqing have worked for many years to get their qualifications up. The salary is also considerable. After saving for a few years, Liu Minghua bought a car of more than 400,000 yuan. After buying it, where to park becomes a hassle, Liu Minghua weighed it and felt that he still had to buy a parking space.
The underground parking space in their community is at least 200,000 yuan. In terms of the income of the couple, it is really not difficult, but now Wang Qingqing said that he would resign.
Liu Minghua's monthly salary is in the early 10,000s, and he has to pay off his mortgage of more than 4,000 a month, plus the cost of maintaining a car is more than 2,000 yuan a month, as well as work For entertainment or something, Liu Minghua's salary is enough for him.
Since taking out the mortgage, Liu Minghua has not paid any money to the house. The property, water, electricity, heating, and various living expenses at home, including all tuition fees for Gang Lung'er, are all taken from Mei Qingqing out.
Mei Qingqing's salary is even better than Liu Minghua's, and with her income on hold, the family can live a good life without worrying about food and drink, and can drive out on holidays travel or something.
If Mei Qingqing resigned, then there would be no need to think about the parking space in a short period of time, and all living expenses would fall on Liu Minghua's head, and life at home would be stretched immediately.
Liu Minghua, who has already raised a child, knows how much it will cost to add another child. Maybe Mei Qingqing secretly saved some savings, but how long can it last?
When a person reaches middle age, the burden of a family's life rests on one person's shoulders. They dare not get sick, dare not ask for leave, and live a careful life every day. Which combination is more economical, the two suits are worn interchangeably, and the sleeves are too frayed. As long as he falls alone, the livelihood of the whole family will be a problem.
Liu Minghua has seen many people like this in the company. He doesn't want himself or his family to fall into such a situation, so Mei Qingqing's income is very important, he is silent again After a while, he said: "Okay, since you insist on having this child, let's have it. If the child is born, if no one takes him, you can ask a nanny to take him. You won't resign, right?"
Mei Qingqing also tried to hire a nanny. After she gave birth, she took over a few jobs. Cai Yuzhen refused to take care of the child for her, so she was going to hire a nanny. various problems.
Either he refused to work hard, or he took care of the child carelessly, and finally hired someone who was good in all aspects. Cai Yuzhen was afraid that the nanny would abuse her own children, and she was afraid that the nanny would suffer when she was idle , I can't wait to stare at the nanny 24 hours a day, and see that the nanny has been instructed by others, and the nanny has only been in their house for a week and quit.
There is no need to discuss these matters with Liu Minghua, Wang Qingqing just sighed slightly: "The main reason is that my health is not very good, I can't keep going to work, I am only three months pregnant now , I can go to work when the child is full month, and at least seven or eight months of leave, do you think I can ask for such a long leave?"
Going to labor arbitration, but going to labor arbitration is to tear up your face with the unit. For such employees, no boss is willing to keep them. They have hundreds of ways for you to voluntarily resign and leave.
Speaking of which, it is going around again. If you don't have this child, then there will be no such thing.
Liu Minghua couldn't persuade Wang Qingqing, he stood up and said to Wang Qingqing: "Since you must have this child, I can't stop you, I just hope you don't regret it."
"When I don't regret it, how do I know that I will regret it?" Wang Qingqing smiled: "I'm tired, so I'll go to bed first."
Liu Minghua turned around and went out. He didn’t go back to his room that night. Their house has three bedrooms. The room was always empty, and Liu Minghua lived in it and slept in the children's bed.
, there are several used bowls in the sink.
Wang Qingqing looked at the half of the fried dough stick and pouted, Cai Yuzhen must have bought breakfast directly after exercising and brought it back.
She didn't care either. She took two eggs from the refrigerator and made a custard for herself. After eating, she washed the tableware and chopsticks she used and went back to the bed.
Chopsticks went back to the house and lay down.
It wasn't until two o'clock in the afternoon that the old couple returned home. Cai Yuzhen saw that the tableware and chopsticks she left in the morning had not been washed, and immediately began to complain: "This is The world has changed, and the mother-in-law has to turn over to serve the daughter-in-law, isn't it because she is pregnant with a child? It's so big that it's so big, it's like no one has ever conceived, hum! I really think I'm pregnant It's a golden lump, tell you, I don't care about the old lady!"
Wang Qingqing ignored her, Cai Yuzhen scolded and chanted in the living room all afternoon, she fell asleep while she was chanting, lay on the sofa and snored loudly for a while, the snoring stopped and then she started talking again, too very persistent.
When it was time to pick up the child, Cai Yuzhen was cooking at home, and Liu Dongfang went to the kindergarten to pick up the steel rod. As soon as Gang Dung'er got home, he complained angrily to Cai Yuzhen that the kindergarten teacher was "a bastard".
"Then Mr. Meng is really bad enough. Gang Chun'er fights with other children, she punish Gang Chun'er to stand in the corridor all afternoon, you know?"
Liu Dongfang patted the table loudly: "How can there be no fights with so many children together? She will let us stand for an afternoon for such a big thing? The child is standing all afternoon, can she afford to pay for her exhaustion? I said a few words to her and she was not happy, I made her face old, bastard, if I didn't see her as a little girl, I had to give her two slaps ."
Cai Yuzhen felt distressed when she heard this, she held the steel shovel and looked around, then lifted up her clothes to check: "Grandma's darling, did you get hurt by that bear child? no You can't give me a hard training."
What kind of logic is this? Wang Qingqing wanted to vomit blood, she felt that she couldn't help but want to vomit fragrance.
"Yes, let your grandma train her, and see if she dares you to stand in the future." Liu Dongfang is still upset, and is still teaching his good grandson: "You don't dare to let it go outside. Someone bullied you, you know? Some children are very bad. If you bully you once and you don't resist, he will bully you often. Grandpa told you that if anyone dares to bully you, you will fight back directly. Desperately, let him know that you are not easy to mess with, and he will not dare to bully you in the future."
You can't be at a loss!"
Wang Qingqing imagined the situation where the steel rod was biting and scratching at another child, and felt that she was really going to vomit fragrance.
"Your grandma is right, you can't suffer from anything you eat. Grandpa was also bullied when he was young. I picked up a brick and kicked both of them. From there, no one in that area dares to bully me again." Liu Dongfang was triumphant.
"Grandpa, what is a scoop?" Gang Dung'er asked when he didn't understand.
"I just smashed all their heads." In Liu Dongfang's mouth, smashing two heads seemed as insignificant as smashing two walnuts.
"Wow Grandpa is amazing." Gang Dung'er gave Liu Dongfang a face: "If Sun Yuchen dares to fight with me again tomorrow, I will smash his head too."
"Okay!" Liu Dongfang laughed: "A man can't be cowardly, he has to show those little bad guys a little bit more."
Wang Qingqing couldn't bear it anymore, she stood up and opened the door with a solemn expression: "Dad, Mom, you can't educate children like this."
Cai Yuzhen had already held back her dissatisfaction with her, but now Wang Qingqing took the initiative to bump into her, how could Cai Yuzhen endure it? She sprayed directly at Wang Qingqing: "You can shut up! Do you have any reason to speak here?"