Chapter 316: i'm not a good mom 6
"Brother-in-law asked me to borrow money for 150,000 yuan." Mei Chengcheng slowly explained to Wang Qingqing the cause and effect: "If you plan to divorce, I will not lend him the money, you If you don't leave, then I'll call him later, and he has spoken, I won't borrow it, your face is not good-looking."
Wang Qingqing felt warm when she heard what younger brother Mei said. Ever since she moved out from Liu's house, Mei's father and Mei's mother have been thinking about getting rid of her divorce, and every time she sees her, she has to chat Talking about this matter made Wang Qingqing afraid of the old couple. Unless it was necessary, she would never go to Mei's house easily.
In the eyes of Mei's parents, there is no problem in their daughter's marriage.
Daughter and son-in-law have the emotional foundation that has been cultivated since their school days, and they have also gone through a difficult process of seeking children. The young couple can be regarded as a couple in adversity.
The Mei family treats the child as a grandson.
The in-laws are also healthy, and they can help her with children without worrying about her daughter. What a good day, why does her daughter want to divorce? Is this marriage a good divorce? Let's not talk about the issue of property distribution, let's talk about what to do with the two children?
Daughter has been begging for children for so many years, she loves her child like something, leave it to the Liu family, the girl will definitely worry about it, both children are born in the belly of the girl, the girl must be reluctant, if Taking the children away, the first is that the Liu family will never give in, and the second is how much will it cost to raise the two boys? Can the daughter afford it?
Take a step back and say that even if the Liu family is willing to pay child support, the daughter will be able to earn money herself, the standard of living will be lowered a little, and the child can be raised, but what will happen to the daughter in the second half of her life? Which man would look for a second marriage partner with two boys? Not to mention two boys, it is difficult to find a partner with one boy.
Stepsons are different from stepdaughters. Stepdaughters can be married off with a little dowry when they grow up, but stepsons have to worry about marriage and house for him. How difficult is it to marry a daughter-in-law now? How expensive is it, who is willing to take advantage of helping others raise their children?
The Mei family's parents feel sorry for their daughter, and naturally do not want her to give up this marriage, which is not a problem in their eyes.
Brother Mei understands her sister's choice. Marriage is like shoes on your feet. Only you know if they fit your feet. How can you see it?
Brother Mei and Liu Minghua used to get along well, but this is not bad because Liu Minghua is his brother-in-law. Now his sister has moved out of Liu's house for two years. He has a relationship with his brother-in-law. Unknowingly, he became estranged, and Liu Minghua suddenly asked him to borrow money. He felt that he had to think about it carefully.
150,000 yuan is not a small sum of money for the younger brother Mei, who earns dead wages. If his sister divorces Liu Minghua, he has absolutely no need to lend this money.
Now, my buddy has moved into the new house, and he hasn't mentioned the matter of paying back the money. He hinted a few times, and the buddy complained about the financial pressure and the hard life.
Whenever he hears his buddy's excuses, Mei's younger brother gets angry for a while. It's really not easy for him to save the 50,000 yuan. , tear your face and ask for the account, my buddy can't get over the loyalty, don't want this account, and I feel very distressed.
Brother Mei didn't want to experience this dilemma anymore. He asked for the account for the first time to no avail, so he secretly made up his mind that he would never lend money to others easily in the future.
Brother Mei did what he said, and really didn't lend money to others in recent years, but now Liu Minghua spoke to him.
If my sister decides to divorce, it is easy to say, just refuse it directly. If my sister does not divorce, then if he has money and does not borrow it, Liu Minghua will definitely make Liu Minghua treat her sister and Mei The family has a grudge, will the relationship of the couple not be affected?
Brother Mei really cares about her sister, and Wang Qingqing is very grateful for his heart: "I have already mentioned divorce to Liu Minghua several times, and he has been dragging it out and refusing to go through the formalities, You don't have to borrow this money, and you don't have to worry about it, I'll tell him."
The two brothers chatted for a while. Wang Qingqing hung up the phone of Mei's brother and called Liu Minghua directly: "Did you ask Chengcheng to borrow money?"
"Well, 150,000 yuan is the school selection fee for Gang Dung'er." Liu Minghua pinched his eyebrows with a headache. He had lost his temper with the 150,000 yuan during this period of time. .
Liu Minghua's salary is only about 8,000 yuan a month, and the more than 8,000 yuan needs to repay the mortgage, maintain the car, pay for the property, water, electricity and heating, as well as his own daily expenses. It's not enough, so he can't save any money at all, and he can be regarded as a proper moonlight family.
Gang Rong'er is going to primary school this year, Cai Yuzhen and his wife have applied to the best private school in their district.
This school started recruiting students just after the end of the year. He took steel to the entrance exam. He didn't pass the entrance exam, and was brushed down on the spot. According to Liu Minghua, the entrance examination The problem is too difficult, it is not prepared for children who have graduated from kindergarten at all, and children in the third grade of elementary school may not be able to do it smoothly.
For the complaints of parents, the teacher in charge of admissions said: "Our school is an elite education, and of course we must select the best for admission."
If you don't pass the entrance exam, you won't be admitted. The primary school in the area is also good. Liu Minghua is very open, but Cai Yuzhen disagrees: "I have already inquired about it, and their entrance exam is simply a cover. If one hundred students who are going to take the exam have not admitted one, then the school has already allocated the admission quota, just to make money, 150,000 admission quota, as long as you pay for it, you can enter."
If it is 10,000 or 20,000 yuan, Liu Minghua can still move around. This 150,000 yuan is really not within the range he can bear. "You shouldn't have married the scourge of Mei Qingqing, who is half-crippled and can't lay an egg in seven or eight years. Look at how she has tossed our family, and she has no savings at all. Not even a good school."
Children these days are the treasures of parents, and it is really worth spending money on their children, but anyone who has a little ability is willing to struggle for the future of their children, only those who are really incompetent , will follow the arrangement of fate.
Students from Gangpung'er Kindergarten, those with more money in the family spent hundreds of thousands to sign up at the private school, and those with less money also spent 50,678,000 yuan Yes, the children were sent to the third and fourth elementary schools in the adjacent area.
There are thirty-five children in a class, and at most four or five children go to the elementary school in their own district. These four or five children are all from poor families.
Cai Yuzhen insisted that Gang Ronger go to that private school, one was for the sake of her grandson's academic performance, and the other was naturally because she didn't want to lose face among relatives and neighbors.
Seeing that her son was worried about money, Cai Yuzhen put her idea on her daughter-in-law: "Gang Dian'er is not your child alone, Mei Qingqing is the child's biological mother, and now the child will spend a lot of money to go to school. Qian, she can't ignore this matter, didn't she say she loves children the most? You go to her and get this money."
Why is Liu Minghua so embarrassed to ask his wife for money? Since his daughter-in-law moved out to give birth to a second child, he has only given the child New Year's money once, never bought a can of milk powder, and never bought a piece of clothes. Now his daughter-in-law relies on online stores to sell clothes for a living, how can he open this up? ?
I didn't want to ask my daughter-in-law for money, but I was forced to do nothing by my mother, so Liu Minghua had to borrow it.
I'm sorry, the relationship is hard, and there are not many people who can come up with the money. Liu Minghua has been thinking about it, and his brother-in-law Mei Chengcheng can give him this help.
"You can go to elementary schools in the area, why do you have to let Gang Rong'er go to that private school?" Wang Qingqing was puzzled: "Going to that private school should be a heavy financial burden for you, right?"
"It's really stressful." Liu Minghua sneered: "But it's worth it for the children, the quality of the school's teaching is really good, and the people who can go to that school are all from a little family background, not about interpersonal relationships. Should it be cultivated from an early age? This elementary school classmate is also a network resource for the child in the future."
The network resources of primary school classmates are really many. Wang Qingqing pouted, if she can't stick to the wall, let alone elementary school classmates, college dormers may not be willing to pay attention to you.
"Chengcheng is embarrassed to tell you that my younger sister-in-law is looking at the car recently, and his younger sister-in-law will use it." Wang Qingqing bluntly rejected Liu Minghua.
After listening to Wang Qingqing's words, Liu Minghua on the other end of the phone rushed to his forehead with anger. He just didn't want to borrow money for anything. Is this necessary? Is he going to take this money for his own enjoyment? He was going to take it to pay the school selection fee for Gang Chun'er!
I would rather be in debt and send my child to a better school. Mei Qingqing is so good, she refuses to help even this little thing, and says she loves her child every day. Child's love?
Liu Minghua is angry and angry, since Mei Qingqing decided to have a second child despite the opposition of the whole family, he has been swallowing his voice.
Mei Qingqing wanted to have a second child, even if he was reluctant, he agreed. It's not good, the body is not good, and he endured and endured. To this wife, he felt that he really did his best, but how did Mei Qingqing treat him?
I just wanted to borrow hundreds of thousands of yuan from my brother-in-law to pay the school selection fee for the child, and it was not that she would not pay it back, but she took the initiative to stop her, and took her as her daughter-in-law, What does she think of herself? Does she still have any place in her heart?
You abandoned me like a shoe, why did I have to shave my head and pick a hot one, these years, can't I live without you? Liu Minghua hung up the phone with a grievance and resentment, and then sent a message to Wang Qingqing: "I agree to the divorce, tomorrow morning at ten o'clock, I will wait for you to go through the formalities at the marriage registration office."
Wang Qingqing raised her eyebrows and replied "Okay".