Chapter 320: i'm not a good mom 10

Chapter 320: i'm not a good mom 10

    Cai Yuzhen approached Wang Qingqing for the purpose of enrolling.

     

    Liu Minghua is the father of the face after all, divorce is not a grudge, in terms of the mental health of the face, the father wants to see the child, Wang Qingqing should not and should not refuse .

    As long as Liu Minghua proposed to meet face-to-face, Wang Qingqing was still willing to cooperate after obtaining the consent of face-to-face, but Liu Minghua was too busy. Yu, I still have to find time to run a hitchhiker to earn money. I'm tired like a dog all day long. The opportunity to take time out to cultivate feelings with face-to-face is really very limited.

      Can follow the little cousin to call Mei Chengcheng Daddy, but he can't call out Daddy to Liu Minghua, either hesitantly calls him uncle, or simply skips the address.

    Liu Minghua knows his own family affairs, that is, he can remember things in the past two years, and he can still know who he is. Before he was three years old, he had to meet his children every time he saw him. Re-acquaint yourself. No way, the child is too young and forgetful, he only shows up once a few months, and he doesn't remember who he is for a long time.

    In this case, the parent-child relationship between Mianmian and Liu Minghua can be imagined, it is really weaker than water.

    Fathers are so unfamiliar, not to mention grandparents, both parties are basically strangers except for knowing "I have grandparents" & "I have a grandson named Mianmian", Over the years, the two sides have tacitly maintained a state of indifference to each other.

    Now Cai Yuzhen suddenly came to Wang Qingqing to talk about all aspects of admission, which is very suspicious.

     "What are the admission lines for the four key high schools in our city, do you know?"

    I haven’t seen Cai Yuzhen for many years, and Cai Yuzhen looks a lot older. I don’t know if she is getting older and has a temper, or she is embarrassed to act like her mother-in-law to her divorced daughter-in-law. Very peaceful.

    "This, I really don't know." Wang Qingqing's words are not perfunctory Cai Yuzhen, the city's high school admission rules are unified entrance examinations, and she hasn't even attended elementary school yet, she really doesn't need it now I began to pay attention to the online rate of a high school.

    Cai Yuzhen did not express any dissatisfaction with Wang Qingqing's answer, she leaned slightly to Wang Qingqing and lowered her voice, as if she was talking about a secret topic: "Our four key high schools in the city, count five In 2010, the online rate of one book was no lower than 90%."

    "Well, so what?" Cai Yuzhen's circle was too big, Wang Qingqing was a little impatient, she frowned slightly: "Can you tell me what you mean? I have to work overtime at night, really Very busy."

    Being stabbed like this by Wang Qingqing, Cai Yuzhen couldn't hang herself, she smiled dryly and directly explained her intention: "Qingqing, if I have something to say, I can say it directly, even though this child is face to face. I have followed you all the time, but I am the child's grandmother after all, and I have always kept him in my heart. Mianmian should go to primary school in September this year, right? I mean, for his own good, let Mianmian also go to Gangbang'er Let them study at school."

    The management is quite wide, Wang Qingqing said to Cai Yuzhen with a half-smiling smile: "Gang Jun'er paid a school fee of 150,000 yuan when he entered school. Did the price go up too?"

    "It's not, it's rising every year, and this year it will be 200,000." Cai Yuzhen proudly said: "With such an expensive school building fee, parents have to squeeze their heads and put their children here. What does this show? It shows that the quality of teaching in other schools is high! Let me tell you, the rate of taking junior high school to four key high schools in this school is 95%, which means you understand Right? It means that as long as you enter this school, one and a half of your two feet step into a school."

    Cai Yuzhen finished expressing her ideas impassively, and continued with the tone of "I am for your own good": "For the sake of the future, the 200,000 yuan is not a loss at all. ,dont you agree?"

    "It's not a loss." Wang Qingqing nodded: "The problem is that I don't have 200,000 yuan, what should I do?"

    How big is Wang Qingqing's business, not even the Mei family, let alone the Liu family, Cai Yuzhen also vaguely knew that her ex-daughter-in-law opened an online shop selling clothes. As for the name of this online shop She doesn't know how much money can be earned in a year by what clothes, and even so, she doesn't think Wang Qingqing can't come up with the money.

    As soon as Wang Qingqing said she had no money, Cai Yuzhen smiled and waved her hand: "These 200,000 yuan are for your son's career, not for me, so you don't have to cry with me to be poor, Qingqing, let me tell you, don't delay your child just because you can't bear the money."

    "It's not that I'm reluctant, it's that I really don't have money." Wang Qingqing sighed: "This school building fee has to be paid 200,000 yuan first, plus tuition expenses, six years of primary school and three years of junior high school. At least 500,000 to 600,000 yuan, where can I get so much money? Oh, by the way, does Minghua also hitch a ride in addition to work? At this juncture, as a father, he just watches?"

    Wang Qingqing's implication almost didn't make Cai Yuzhen's nose crooked, and she couldn't suppress her temper after a lot of effort, she angrily said to Wang Qingqing: "You are still a mother. , if you don't feel good at all, you will get divorced. After so many years, Gang Dung'er, you have not taken care of it. Minghua is both a father and a mother. Don't count on him, if you don't have money, why don't you have your brother and your parents, your Mei family's annual income adds up to hundreds of thousands, and you can't afford a face?"

    "You're right," Wang Qingqing covered her mouth and laughed, "It's not easy for my parents to raise me, I'm already a few decades old, and if I have the ability, I should be filial They, let the second old man enjoy his old age in peace, and drag the two old men to eat bran and choy to provide for my children, so am I still a human? I might as well buy a piece of tofu and kill me. "

    Wang Qingqing's words pierced Cai Yuzhen's innermost grievance that cannot be shared with outsiders, and the old lady almost burst into tears in an instant.

    She started family planning as soon as she got married. Cai Yuzhen has only raised one son, Liu Minghua, in her life. Her wife is a regular worker in a water plant. In the past half of her life, she had never had any trouble because of lack of money.

    Since the baby's eldest grandson went to that private school, the family's economy has become more and more tense.

    The teaching quality of that private school is good, and the admission rate is really high, but the fees are really expensive. Over the past few years, various expenses have been rising year by year. Now, Gang Chun’er only pays about 40,000 yuan to the school for one school year.

    In addition to the hard expenses that are handed over to the school, Gang Juner also has other messy expenses, such as buying clothes and snacks, giving gifts to classmates on their birthdays, going to the mall on weekends to watch a movie, and balancing the mobile phone Cars and so on.

      Summer Camp Winter Camp.

    The school pays attention to an elite education, in addition to focusing on grades, it also focuses on quality education. Since I was in the third grade, the school will arrange activities every winter and summer vacation. What is the short-term study tour language training, the child goes out with the school teacher for ten days and a half months, and the fee ranges from 7,000 to 8,000 to as much as 40,000 to 50,000. These expenses, plus tuition and miscellaneous expenses, make their family very angry. Can't breathe.

      I have to go to work everywhere to make money.

     

    First of all, I hate my daughter-in-law, Mei Qingqing, for being disobedient and insisting on having a second child. If it weren't for her insisting on having a second child, the whole family would raise a steel child, how could it be as difficult as it is now .

    Then I hated that the second grandson was reincarnated without eyesight, if he could be reincarnated into his mother's belly early, the family would not have spent so much money for medical treatment, and would not have so many births Something happened.

    And then there is regret, if she was not so eager to report her grandson, and waited patiently for a few years, Mianmian would naturally be born, she regretted very much that she didn't know which one was wrong in her brain. , Fei forced his son and daughter-in-law to buy an egg and give birth to a steel son.

    In the end, I was annoyed, annoyed myself, annoyed my son and wife, and annoyed my daughter-in-law Mei Qingqing. Back then, I couldn't think of reporting this **** private school to Gang Dung'er, but everyone from my son to my wife agreed. , and Mei Qingqing, the ex-daughter-in-law who was plagued, even paid 150,000 yuan to pay for the school's establishment.

    If his son and his wife stopped him, or if his ex-daughter-in-law didn't send the 150,000 yuan, he would never be able to get into the **** private school. If he went to the elementary school in the area, Why is my family so difficult, and how can I still work hard to earn money when I should be happy?

    Although Cai Yuzhen hates this and resents that, but she knows clearly that most of these things are her own fault, but people's inferiority is at work, it is easy to blame others and it is difficult to reflect on yourself, like Cai Yuzhen is headstrong This is especially true of the old lady who has spent most of her life. If things go wrong, it must be someone else's fault. It has absolutely nothing to do with the shrewd and capable self, and she all pretends to be confused.

    I don't want to blame myself, it's not appropriate to blame my son and wife, then only outsiders can blame.

      When it came to money, the two people who had left long ago were also scolded by the sky.

      Study abroad and go to a summer camp at an elementary school in Toronto.

    Study tour activities follow the principle of voluntary, the school does not force students to participate, those who want to go quickly pay the money and go through the formalities, and those who don't want to go can not go, Cai Yuzhen heard the fee standard, and immediately issued it to Gang Li'er Order: "If I don't have money, I can't go." Gang Dian'er was naturally unhappy, so he had a violent fight with Cai Yuzhen. What's the use of making a fuss? You can't make money even if you make trouble, just make a fool of yourself.

    Gang Chung'er failed to make trouble with Cai Yuzhen, but Cai Yuzhen was also tormented by him, and Cai Yuzhen, who was physically and mentally exhausted, also thought about simply transferring to Gang Chun'er, the cost pressure every day So big, the whole family has to save money to provide for him, why bother, transfer him directly to the primary school in the area, and spend a maximum of two or three hundred yuan a semester, so there is no need to worry about not enough money to spend.

    This idea popped up in Cai Yuzhen’s mind several times, but think about the 150,000 yuan school building fee paid in the early stage, and then think about the tuition and miscellaneous fees of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan a year, as long as one Transferring schools, all these investments have been in vain.

    Cai Yuzhen was reluctant, but the more she delayed, the more money she spent, the more she was reluctant.

    Gang Chung’er will finish fifth grade immediately, and he will stick to it for three or four years. When he goes to a key high school, it means that this investment in learning will bear fruit. Think about the whole family going to school for Gang Chung’er With all the hard work, Cai Yuzhen is really not willing to give up halfway.

    Unwilling, she had to continue to plan for her eldest grandson. Cai Yuzhen thought of her ex-daughter-in-law who was plagued by plague. She was in a trance when she heard that her ex-daughter-in-law quit her job to open a Taobao store. Is she a business person? , In any case, it is more flexible than the person who receives the dead salary.

      The ex-daughter-in-law is rich, but can she leave her own son aside and give the money to Gang Junerhua?

    I know with my toes, if I go to my ex-daughter-in-law and ask for money, most of my children won't get what I want, but if my second grandson also enters this school, it will be much easier. .

    Being a mother and paying the fees for the second child, it’s not good to ignore the elder brother who is in the same school but can’t pay the fees, right? Even if Mei Qingqing is only willing to pay a small part of the cost to Gang Dung'er, it can ease the financial pressure on her family.

    Cai Yuzhen thought about it for a long time, and after making up her mind, she went to the door of her ex-daughter-in-law. As a result, Wang Qingqing made her speech so sad that she almost cried. The act of rushing to ask for trouble is simply stupid, and she is so uncomfortable that she can't speak for a long time.

    "Whoever gives birth to the child is responsible. My parents raised me and gave me half their lives. Their responsibilities and obligations before me have been fulfilled." Wang Qingqing looked at Cai Yuzhen's ugly face and expressed herself His speech: "It's my responsibility to face each other. I will give him whatever conditions I have. It's time for my parents to enjoy themselves. How can I be so embarrassed to drag them to continue to pay for my children?"

    Wang Qingqing's words were appropriate and filial, and it fell into Cai Yuzhen's ears, which made her more and more sad and lost. Mood continued to encourage Wang Qingqing.

    "Qingqing, I won't say much, I just want to tell you that the old man should be filial, but it should not delay the child because of this. With your strong support, Gang Jun'er went to the private sector. School, in the future, the key high school and key undergraduate studies all the way up, it is smooth and stable, but face to face? You are reluctant to spend money and just let him go to a school in the area, his grades can be better? They are all your own children, But there is a different treatment, Mianmian grows up and tastes it, can I not blame you and hate you?"

    Cai Yuzhen said what she should say, if the ex-daughter-in-law really loves the child, she must know how to choose the best thing for the child, and she is not prepared to be too long-winded, she will leave after raising her leg: "You If you think about it, call me, I have been in contact with the middleman who handled the formalities for Gang Rong'er."

    Cai Yuzhen wanted to leave, but Wang Qingqing didn't stop her, she just followed her and asked, "Gang Dung'er went to that private school, so his grades must be good, right? Does he rank high? Generally How many points are you taking?"

    Wang Qingqing asked this question, Cai Yuzhen stopped, her face began to darken visibly.