Chapter 3397
The 050 chapter is difficult to cover
The woman hurriedly waved her hand: “We have always been poor people. Where are the children of poor families? What are the loves of the children of the poor people? The children of the poor people are suffering from suffering. They are grown up with grievances… Love, it is a matter of wealthy people. ”
“Love does not mean material.” Xu Yun said seriously: “Love is spiritual and educational. Many wealthy children born from small spoons have always got the best material life. I have not been loved and broken, and I am very sensible and know what is grateful.”
The woman snorted, this is a reason she has never heard of before.
Is love not material, but spiritual?
“Maybe you have always owed him materially, but you have always loved him mentally.” Xu Yun said: “If it doesn’t, it won’t make him what it is today.”
“He is very good, he is a very sensible child.” The woman quickly said good things for her son.
“I am very sensible? If I am not here today, but they are the president of Song, I believe he will not continue to use him again.” Xu Yun is unceremonious: “If he is my driver, I will not The slightest hesitation fired him.”
The woman’s expression was obviously surprised: “Why… why…?”
“The reason is very simple. Because he is not even the most basic filial piety, he will certainly not be loyal to his work, loyal to his position, and even less loyal to his company, loyal to his boss.” Xu Yun Road : “So simple, can you understand?”
The woman shook her head.
“Then I think about it, it’s more straightforward to say.” Xu Yun is not impatient. If you change to be a woman’s son, I’m afraid I’m already impatient.
The children who are patient with their parents are really few and far between, and even poor.
Xu Yun continued: “You, as his mother, have worked hard to raise him. Since he was so difficult to pull him to this day, he is not grateful to you. Then, as a boss, I just gave him a salary to let him live. He hasn’t taken care of him for other things, and he certainly won’t be grateful to me. You said, why should one of my bosses reuse this kind of employee who doesn’t know how to be grateful?”
The woman nodded suddenly and realized that she really understood the meaning of Xu Yun.
“So I said that if I have such an employee, I will definitely not reuse it.” Xu Yun said: “Those who can’t even write filial piety will never write loyalty. Why should I make this? People work for me?”
The woman bowed her head.
Think about her education for her son…
Xu Yun is right. She is the typical kind of parent who loves her children spiritually. Her love for her son is unconditional. Although there is no material satisfaction forever, she is always a spiritual favorite.
From an early age, she would not let her son suffer any grievances other than material.
Because she always felt that her son was greatly wronged in material matters, so he could no longer be wronged in other aspects.
It is precisely this practice that makes this guy who has been spiritually loved grow up and will not be grateful to Mother for taking care of him.
He never thought about how difficult it was for him to take care of him and raise him. Instead, he felt that Mother was sorry for him and made him so difficult.
The first mistake of all this is not his, but the education of mother. It is Mother’s constant emphasis on being sorry for him. It is Mother’s constant emphasis on her because she has made him so difficult.
Therefore, subtly, he thinks like this, thinks that everything is wrong with mother, mother has been losing money to him! Instead of being kind to him!
“Your son has become like this today. It is your fault that you have no filial piety.” Xu Yun said: “We have a saying in China that we are not filial fathers, parents, and sometimes we should think more.”
At this time, the driver bought the coffee back.
Xu Yun took a cup of coffee and handed it to the woman, and the woman’s first reaction was to give her son a drink because the son only bought two cups.
But at this time, Xu Yun’s eyes fell on the woman’s body: “Huaxia has a sentence, called a filial son under the stick. If some children are really not things, it doesn’t matter if you play a few words.” ”
“I understand.” The woman nodded.
The driver was a little bit sloppy and didn’t understand what they had said.
“If you think that my mother is humiliating, I will not have this mother in the future.” The woman suddenly said to her son: “You will be like this, it is my education mistake, and all consequences I voluntarily bear.”
“Mom? What do you mean by this?” This is his “mother” for a long time. It seems to him that it doesn’t matter, but at the moment his mother has already burst into tears.
The woman turned and left, throwing away the coffee in her hand.
The driver is even more embarrassed, and you don’t drink it for me! This cup of coffee is 15,000 won! Because Xu Yun wanted it, he didn’t dare to buy the cheapest, the most expensive coffee.
To know that 15,000 won is enough for him to eat a very large meal, he has never been willing to spend more than 5,000 won for dinner!
Although he took the money to reimburse, he still feels distressed!
I can buy a few Chinese cabbages for 15,000 won.
“Mom… what do you mean by this?” Although he called the mother, he still heard some complaints in his tone. It seems that because the move of Mother in front of Xu Yun did not give him the so-called face, which made him feel very Embarrassed.
So he was a little uncomfortable.
But the woman never looked back to him.
Only when the close relative is about to “leave” himself will he discover how precious this “dear” is… so when his mother no longer cares about him, his heart is really lost!
This kind of taste is very uncomfortable. It is more uncomfortable than the kind of feeling that he does not want mother to appear when he appears.
“It’s hard to cover the water.” Xu Yun drank the coffee. “The cup of coffee is spilled. Can you put the spilled coffee back into the cup?”
“Of course not.” The driver answered without thinking about it. This question does not need to be thought at all.
Xu Yun nodded. “Sometimes, the same is true for family. When you think it’s okay, you can hurt unscrupulously, but when your family is like a cup of coffee, it’s hard to find it.”
The driver’s throat was loose, although he was somewhat worried, but he felt that Xu Yun was somewhat alarmist.
After all, that is fucking! He doesn’t believe that his mother will leave him alone.
“You have been unscrupulously neglecting your own mother. Did you suddenly think that your mother is about to leave you cold, you still feel very lost?” Xu Yun smiled: “This is family, and today you What is lost is precisely this most precious feeling.”
“I… I won’t lose it.” The driver naturally refused to admit it.
“You didn’t call her mother before, she has to be obedient to you. And today you shouted her, she didn’t pay any attention to you.” Xu Yun said: “Your family seems to have fallen into a deep crisis. In the middle, make up for it, maybe there is still the possibility of finding it back.”
“What did you say to my mom?” The driver couldn’t understand.
“I just told her that your filial piety is caused by her behavior. And your filial piety will become a hindrance to your career, because no boss will cultivate a filial staff.” Xu Yun said.
Perhaps this driver has not been able to understand the difficulties of mother until now.
Her mother can succumb to her heart. In fact, she hopes that he can wake up and understand what is “filial piety”, so that he will not be expelled by the boss in the future… Whenever he thinks of it, even if his son calls her “mother”, She did not care.
Xu Yun’s education is very thorough. She knows that if she can’t give her son enough lessons, her son will not be truly awake and enlightened.
Xu Yun looked at the “hearted mother” who left without returning to the head. Only the admiration left in the heart.
The driver was completely stunned and stayed where he was and did not know what to do.
Xu Yun waved his hand back to the car: “Don’t stay in such a place where you can see the warmth and sorrow of society. I don’t like lyrics very much, so you still take me to a bustling place. Where the beauty is a little more, at least my mood can be more comfortable.”
Although the driver wanted to talk to Mother at the moment, Xu Yun ordered that he could only obey the order. He decided to go home at night, take out the savings and buy some beef, and have a meal with mother. Talk about it.