Chapter 564: Women are people too
Chapter 564 Women are human beings too
"Then what should I do?"
If it was just a matter of her own, Jiang Xin might think that she would choose to endure it.
But it concerns her two daughters. In her mind, these two children are her lifeblood.
Even though her mother-in-law and her husband have always said that the children are money losers, for Jiang Xin, these two children are her life.
It is the only pillar in her life that can bring light and warmth.
She will not tolerate anything that harms her children.
She will fight tooth and nail for her children.
Jiang Xiaoxiao couldn't help but admire the eldest sister, she still grasped the key point.
My own words are not enough to touch people's hearts.
This is what Jiang Xin needs.
Jiang Xin grabbed Jiang Yue and Jiang Xiaoxiao, "Sister, little sister, you have to help me. If something like this really happens, what should I do? No, I can't live with him like this. Qin Dazhuang has been returning to his home at every turn recently. He came home from time to time asking for money, and even took away the change from the child's piggy bank.
Like the eldest sister is right, I also think that his current situation is not right. What if he gambles? Because gambling, it is not uncommon for a family to go bankrupt and be ruined. "
Hold on to the two of them as if they were holding on to life-saving straws.
"Don't worry. This time he beat you back home. It's a good thing to go back to your parents' house. Let's take this opportunity to tell everything. If Qin Dazhu doesn't explain the matter clearly, we won't finish it. In the next two days, I will ask your brother-in-law and Jiang Lei to help you find out what happened with Qin Dazhuang?
As long as he has done anything, there will always be clues left behind. It's impossible for people around us not to know, and we always need to know what happened at Qin Dazhu's place. It's easy for us to deal with it.
He hit you. In theory, he should come to our house today or tomorrow to apologize and take you and your child back. You must have a tough attitude on this matter, and you can't just say a simple apology and that's it.
Last time, you gave in too easily and followed him and the child back. Only then will he hit you harder and harder later. Take a look at what it looks like now. "
Jiang Yue also thinks that things can't just be settled like this.
Jiang Xiaoxiao nodded, "Second sister, I think I'll take you to the hospital now."
Jiang Xin shook her head, "There's no need to go to the hospital. I have minor injuries all over my body."
What I didn’t say was that going to the hospital would cost money.
“You have to go to the hospital. You must go to the hospital first to prove that you were really injured by him. This is evidence. When you get divorced one day in the future, do you want your two children to follow Qin Dazhuang?
So you have to make some preparations in advance. If you don’t have long-term worries, you will have immediate worries. You don't have to worry about money. I only gave you 500 yuan at the beginning. I didn't give them 3,000 yuan like the eldest sister and third brother. I just want to keep the remaining 2,500 yuan with me for you to use for emergencies.
Because I'm worried that the money I gave to you will all be spent on the Qin family in the end. You may call me selfish, but I really felt that there were no good people in the Qin family at that time. If you spent all this money on them, you would be feeding white-eyed wolves at most, which would not do you or your children any good.
You are my sister, and I can only think about you. The mother-in-law of the Qin family treats you so badly, and she still hopes to enjoy the blessings and take advantage of you. There is no way. "
Jiang Xin burst into tears, holding Jiang Xiaoxiao in her arms and crying.
"I'm sorry, Xiaoxiao, I misunderstood you. I always thought that you were partial, that you looked down on me, that you were belittling me. Now I know that you, my sister, really care about me, my sister."
I am not as good as you, not as good as my eldest sister, and not as good as anyone in the family. I have lived in these years without understanding at all, and I am not as understanding as you, my younger sister. "
Jiang Xin felt really guilty. She had no idea that her sister's refusal to give her money was actually for her own good.
When these words were spoken, Jiang Xin really felt ashamed.
When I yelled at my family so loudly, I thought I had vented my inner anger and grievance.
Now I realize how ignorant and narrow-minded that was, and that her family was really good to her.
The only people who are truly good to her, tolerant of her, and considerate of her are her own family members.
She really misunderstood Jiang Xiaoxiao.
Jiang Xiaoxiao wiped her tears.
"When I say this to you, I don't mean that I have to divorce you. I'm just telling you that you have a strong backing from your family. As long as you have the courage to face all this, we will be your support and protect you and your family." Protect children.
Don't think so much about gossip and embarrassment. Will our family still be afraid of this? Are parents still afraid of this? Do you think that when parents see their daughters beaten like this by others, they will just tell their daughters like other parents do.
Go back and live a good life. The couple fights at the end of the bed and at the end of the bed. Do you think our parents are like that? Your older sisters, younger brothers, parents. All your family members are behind you, and only if you are strong can you protect your children.
Whether you choose to divorce or not, we will support you. Divorce means returning home. You have a legitimate job and a fixed income to support you and your children. That is rich and abundant. Without other people's involvement, your life will be much more comfortable.
Is it baffling that you are not raising your children by yourself now? What is the difference between divorce and divorce?
If you don’t choose divorce, then we must let Qin Dazhuang remember this lesson forever and never hit a woman. And let him always remember how to respect women and how to take care of his wife and children.
If he can't learn this, you can give up on this man.
If his heart is not with you and the children, what do you think is the point of living this life. Why do you have to compromise? If it's for your children, I don't think you should compromise. Two children need a warm and safe living environment to make them positive.
Do you hope that what they endure every day is the beating from their father and the scolding from their grandmother? All day long, I humbly think that I am a loser.
If you think so, I will really look down on your second sister. Women are also human beings, and they should live a life of self-reliance and self-reliance. No one stipulates that women must live a humble life, must give birth to sons, and must compromise for the sake of their children.
You have the right to pursue happiness. "
Jiang Xiaoxiao's words aroused a lot of courage in Jiang Xiaoxiao's heart.
Yeah, what is she afraid of?
She often thinks resentfully every night, why is it a sin to give birth to a daughter?
When you give birth to a daughter, you will be insulted and scolded by your mother-in-law, and you will be looked down upon by others. Women are human beings too.
I have envied my eldest sister many times, and my eldest sister also gave birth to a daughter, but my eldest brother-in-law still takes great care of my eldest sister, and loves his daughter as if he is my lifeblood.
Why can’t I meet such a good man?
But if you think about it seriously, does it have nothing to do with you? She often made concessions, and every concession allowed others to make further progress.
And then it became like this.
(End of this chapter)