Chapter 415 Education Issues
"Okay, then you think about it slowly and make a decision after thinking about it." Han Yu did not force Su Wenyue. Now that the situation has been clearly explained to his wife, the rest is left to her to decide. Su Wenyue's determination just now frightened her. After leaving Han Yu, Han Yu actually wanted his daughter-in-law to stay with him again, but he wanted his daughter-in-law to leave for the sake of her safety. Now he has figured it out, whether he can share joys and sorrows with his daughter-in-law, as long as he arranges it If you are more careful, you may not be unable to protect your wife's safety.
However, Han Yu felt that the three children were still too young. If his wife was willing to let them go, it would be a good idea to leave them to someone she trusted to raise them in the village.
Han Yu expressed his thoughts, but Su Wenyue had other considerations. She didn't feel comfortable leaving the child's upbringing to others. Even if the servant was loyal, his knowledge was limited, and for a more important reason, Brother Xing and others children are different.
"Ms. sir, I think it's better for the children to stay with us. At this age, it's the most important time to educate them well. I don't feel comfortable leaving them to others. Besides, our situation is not the worst. As long as we make arrangements, If there is too much risk, then we can just make arrangements. When it comes to enduring hardship, there is a saying that the children of the poor will be the masters early. It is better for the children to endure hardship in order to grow. "
Han Yu was only concerned about the safety of the children before and did not consider this aspect. Hearing what Su Wenyue said, he nodded in agreement. It was his wife who had the foresight and thoughtfulness to start thinking about the upbringing of the children at such a young age. .
Han Yu had seen many children from wealthy families before. They were spoiled and had the habits of a playboy, which he couldn't stand the most. On weekdays, I see my wife doting on her children, and I am a little worried, fearing that she will spoil the children. Now it seems that my wife is not that ignorant woman who only knows how to indulge and pamper her children. No wonder the children are taught so well, and all my colleagues Or friends come over and see the three children and no one disapproves of them.
"Daughter-in-law, I listen to you. I am busy with outside matters on weekdays and neglect the children a lot. Thank you for raising the children so well. Thank you for your hard work!" Han Yu held his wife's hand and said, He will not be like those arrogant men who act like a big man in front of his wife. He thinks that it is natural for his wife to raise a child well. He will take care of the child himself when he has time on weekdays. He knows how to teach a child well. It's such a difficult thing, and it requires far more effort than people see, not to mention that there are still three people in their family.
"Well, this is what it should be. They were born after my ten-month pregnancy and they are my own flesh and blood. As long as they can grow up safely and healthily, I will be happy to do anything you want, not to mention that the children are so It's not all my fault for being obedient, it's their own good sense, and Brother Xing, the eldest brother, has set a good example and knows how to take care of his younger siblings at a young age."
Su Wenyue felt a little ashamed and embarrassed to be so solemnly thanked by Han Yu. Speaking of it, although she had been a mother once in her previous life, she was an incompetent mother. Fortunately, Brother Xing had been sensible since she was a child. Many things were caused by Brother Xing. The little child is doing it, she really has no face to be Brother Xing’s mother! Although I have tried my best to be a good mother in this life, there are still some things that are not considerate enough. Brother Xing is still so sensible. Not only does he do a good job, he also takes good care of his younger brothers and sisters. The two little ones also listen to Brother Xing very well. What this big brother said.
"Brother Xing is indeed like an eldest brother. He is worthy of being my son, Han Yu!" Speaking of his children, Han Yu was very satisfied, especially his sensible eldest son, who is obviously so young, less than three years old. Many children don't understand anything at this age, but Brother Xing can take care of his younger siblings very well without worrying his parents at all.
"Of course, not only Brother Xing, Brother Chen and Sister Yu are also very smart and sensible, and they are both good children." Su Wenyue added, although Brother Xing is special in her heart, they are all her children. She will not be partial to anyone, and she has the same requirements for Han Yu. She does not want her children to feel resentful because of unequal treatment, or even affect the relationship between brothers. This is especially important when there are more brothers and sisters.
But for now, the problem that Su Wenyue is worried about has not arisen. Whenever Brother Xing gets any good things, he always sticks to his younger siblings. Once, Su Wenyue quietly passed by and found the two little ones fighting for toys. Brother Xing was very patient. Reasoning with two little ones and teaching them what to do, how could you not be happy to see such a scene.
"Dad! Mom!" When Cao Cao and Cao Cao arrived, Han Yu and Su Wenyue were talking about their two children. Brother Chen and Sister Yu ran in from outside, calling them father and mother affectionately. Brother Xing said steadily Walking behind, I asked my younger brothers and sisters to run slower and not fall.
"Mom, why are you crying?" Sister Yu had sharp eyes. She noticed something was wrong when she walked in. Su Wenyue had just argued with Han Yu. There were tears on her face and she forgot to wipe them away. The little guy saw it.
When Brother Chen heard what Sister Yu said, he also looked at Su Wenyue's face carefully. He looked at Su Wenyue like a young adult: "Mom, why are you crying? Did dad bully you? Daddy is not good and needs to be punished!"
The three little guys followed their mother more often, and naturally had deeper feelings for Su Wenyue, so they all protected their mother, especially Brother Xing, who was walking over calmly at first. When he heard Su Wenyue cry, his pace immediately quickened and he hurriedly When I came to Su Wenyue, I saw that there were really tears on Su Wenyue's face. She frowned and was very worried. She looked at Han Yu reproachfully, looking like a little adult.
"Mom, you have been wronged, don't be sad, tell your son, I will share your worries and solve your problems!" Xing Ge'er said so. Although the look he gave Han Yu was obviously blaming, as a child, he could not violate filial piety and blame his parents, so he said it very tactfully, but his tone was very dissatisfied.
Su Wenyue was very pleased with the thoughtfulness of her three children, but she did not want the three children to have any bad views of their father. Even if she had any quarrels or disputes with Han Yu on weekdays, she would avoid the children. Seeing that the children had misunderstood, she hurriedly explained: "You three brothers and sisters have misunderstood. Mom has not been wronged. She is just happy and she cried because she was so happy."
Yu Jie'er raised her head when she heard it, as if she understood and didn't understand: "Crying because of joy, Yu Jie'er knows what it means. Big brother said that crying because of joy means shedding tears of joy, but why do you have to cry because of happiness? Yu Jie'er only cries when she is unhappy. Mom, are you crying because you are happy?"
Su Wenyue explained more patiently after hearing Yu Jie'er's childish words