Chapter 112
"When you feel anxious, you may have confrontation, avoidance, or rigid responses, and you will show confrontation. Our treatment plan is to first find out the environment that is easy to cause anxiety, and then use corresponding strategies to encourage children to learn to relax." Dr. Gao said , "Especially in the adolescent and adult stages, they will be influenced by the outside world and make wrong social behaviors."
Jiang Min said, "Are you saying that Xiaozhou was excluded from the school?"
"This possibility cannot be ruled out. Of course, in today's consultation, I have been hearing that he mentioned a good friend, and there may be a relationship that exceeds friendship. Of course, the people who have a close relationship in the youth stage are generally It’s normal for girls, and boys in some cases, and parents need to pay more attention to his friends after they go back.” Dr. Gao showed his signature smile again, as if what he said was no big deal.
The expression on Li Qingcheng's face suddenly froze.
Jiang Min hadn't heard it yet, and wanted to ask again, but was quickly reprimanded by Li Qingcheng, who said with an ugly face, "Don't say it, isn't it shameful enough!"
Dr. Gao waved his hand and said, "Mr. Li, I can understand your feelings, but 'homosexuality' is a mental illness, so it's not a shameful thing, and there are cases of cures, so it's nothing."
Li Qingcheng lowered his voice and asked about his treatment.
Dr. Gao said: "I know an expert professor in this field. He opened a treatment center. The current drug therapy and behavior modification cognitive therapy have good results. You can try it."
Li Qingcheng frowned and asked, "Is it quick?"
"It's hard to say, it depends on the individual situation, but there is a closed management. I suggest that you can observe the child's usual situation first. After all, the college entrance examination is about to be completed. After the examination is over, you can consider sending it for treatment. Dr. Gao said, "Don't worry, this treatment center has a cooperative relationship with the provincial hospital. It is a separate convalescent institution from the neurology department. The price is slightly more expensive, but the effect is very good."
Jiang Min just reacted, her face was pale, her lips were tight and she did not speak, only her eyes could not focus, she couldn't believe it, but she was unwilling to send her son for treatment, "If, if not..."
Dr. Gao turned to look at her, "Of course, this is also a choice. Children with high IQs are usually perfectionists and have strong self-preferences. We assume that the worst consequence is social withdrawal. If you can't integrate into society, I don't need to say more about this, right?" He spread his hands, "Your parents are the ultimate guardians and relatives of his family, and should play a positive role in guiding him."
Jiang Min had cold sweat on her forehead, she said with difficulty: "I think it's better to go back and have a good chat with the child and listen to his opinion."
Dr. Gao analyzed some cases with them. Without exception, they were all people who had been "cured" in that sanatorium. He even took out some photos and persuaded them, "Look, the children in these photos. They are very close to their parents, that is because they know that their parents helped them get through a hurdle in their life, and the family's relationship has become closer. They are grateful to their parents in their hearts, and they can understand that their parents are doing this for their own good. Like this boy who was treated for Internet addiction, 14 years old, he was discharged from the hospital in two months, and now he is very listening to his parents..."
Jiang Min listened absent-mindedly.
Li Qingcheng listened to them very seriously. He looked hesitant. Before leaving, he asked Dr. Gao for a business card of the sanatorium.
On the way back, Jiang Min discussed with Li Qingcheng: "I don't think you can just listen to what Dr. Gao has to say. When you go back, don't blame the child first, talk to him slowly, or let me talk to him. ?"
She was intent on maintaining it, but Li Qingcheng didn't know what he was thinking, so he just nodded casually, turned his head to look out the car window and frowned without saying a word.
Even with such an attitude, Jiang Min was relieved.
When he got home, Li Qingguo went into the bedroom without saying a word.
Jiang Min poured a glass of juice, took it to Li Tongzhou's room, and knocked on the door. Hearing a promise, he pushed the door in.
Li Tongzhou was reading the book in the room, putting his mobile phone aside, when he saw her coming in, he called Mom.
Jiang Min gave him the juice, and she had already thought about it when she was on the road. If there was one person who had a close relationship with Li Tongzhou, it would be Guo Jingyu. She sat aside and asked in a low voice, "Xiaozhou, how are you and Jingyu recently?"
Li Tongzhou said, "It's fine, what's wrong?"
Jiang Min is engaged in scientific research. She stays in the laboratory all day and doesn't know how to communicate with the current children. She was a little cautious for a while, "That's right, I haven't seen him for a long time, so I want to ask."
Li Tongzhou said: "He just came a few days ago."
Jiang Min: "Oh, yes?"
"Well, he has the professional qualification certificate of Tsinghua Academy of Fine Arts."
Jiang Min was a little surprised, and she dispelled more than half of her doubts about Guo Jingyu for a while. She still had an old concept. She always felt that whether a child who fell in love with a boy or a girl, his grades would be affected to some extent. She jumped from the bottom to the top three in the school, which really surprised her. "Jingyu is so powerful, so it seems that he has been studying hard recently. Do art students have lower grades in cultural courses?"