Chapter 189 In fact, I am a traveler
Chen Quan smiled and said, "I can do simple hypnosis."
Du Caige was full of expectations, but she continued: "However, I will judge whether to use hypnosis to promote counseling based on the actual situation. If you are very clear, and then ask me to use hypnotherapy for counseling, then I can only apologize , I may not be suitable for you, you need to find another counselor. I can recommend you a well-known counselor in the industry who is good at hypnotherapy, and turn your basic situation together, and try my best to make your new The consultant works seamlessly with you.”
"No, come as you think, Mr. Chen Quan, hypnotize me when you think it's appropriate." Du Caige said quickly.
He has a fragment of memory that Chen Quan gave the original owner for psychological counseling.
Chen Quan knew the original owner's biggest secret.
This saved him a lot of things.
Du Caige felt that it was difficult for him to let go of his guard and tell another psychologist frankly about everything.
"Yes, I will use hypnotherapy appropriately according to my own judgment and your needs," Chen Quan paused for a moment, revealing her signature gentle and understanding smile, "Then there is still a little time today, Are you still willing to talk about it? Although there may not be enough time to solve major problems, I think this kind of casual chat should be beneficial to you."
Du Caige was silent.
Chen Quan didn't rush, just stared at him with a smile.
Didn't stare him in the eyes, didn't put pressure on him, just looked at him very easily.
In such an atmosphere, Du Caige felt that the most unspeakable things could be said. Finally, he decided to take a risk.
After making up his mind, he said with difficulty: "I recovered a little memory before, and one of them was that you gave him consultation. At that time, he said to you..."
"he?"
"Yes, please don't interrupt me."
"Sorry, I'm just surprised you refer to yourself in the third person."
"For me, that's him, that's not me."
Chen Quan's eyes were deep, and he nodded lightly: "Sorry, there are some things I don't understand, but I can discuss it after you finish, please continue."
"He said to you at the time that he felt that there was another soul living in his body. Do you remember?"
Chen Quan nodded: "I'm impressed."
Du Caige raised his head and stared at her: "I am that other soul. In addition, I consider myself a transmigrator, transmigrator, do you understand this word? Just understand it. So there are many other worlds in my memory. Things. Of course, I'm not trying to prove that I'm a traveler, I don't want to be treated as a mental patient by you, I'm just telling you how I feel."
Chen Quan did not appear astonished.
Her expression was still smiling, tender, empathetic, a little surprised, but generally calm.
It took a long time for her to speak: "I remember, I gave you a consultation..."
"give him."
"Well, when I consulted him, he said he felt that the other soul was unconscious, or that the consciousness was sleeping."
"I remember this scene."
"Now you say, you are that other soul."
"I think I am."
Chen Quan squinted slightly and looked at Du Caige, as if he was evaluating his mental stability.
Du Caige was a little uneasy, worried that she would be misunderstood and not accepted, but she still looked back at her boldly.
Her pupils are darker in color, her demeanor is calm and her manner is elegant.
They say women are like cats.
Among the women Du Caige has ever met, she is the most cat-like.
Although it is an old cat, the fur has lost its luster, and it is no longer premature, but it is still elegant.
That grace has been carved into her bones.
After a while, she finally spoke slowly: "I'm glad you were honest with me. But what I don't quite understand is that you told me that you were the other soul, did you simply tell me about this, or did you say What do you want me to do about it?"
Du Caige said without hesitation: "No,
I just hope our next consultations are based on this perception. I don't think this is my psychological problem, and I hope you don't take this as my psychological problem. My current mental state is good, my self-awareness is clear, the only problem is memory loss. The only purpose of my consultation is to get to know him in the past, to awaken more memory fragments, to find his life, and to live my own life well. "
"Yes," Chen Quan replied without hesitation, "I will remember that this is the cognitive basis for our consultation."
Du Caige felt that he was completely relaxed.
It was only then that he realized that in that short while, he was already sweating nervously.
It does take some courage to say those things and risk being considered lunatic.
But after he said it, he got the respect and approval of the other party (Chen Quan didn't necessarily believe it, or it could be said that she didn't believe it at all, but at least she agreed), and he felt that he was in the most relaxed state after crossing over. .
"Okay," he said with a relieved smile, "the biggest hurdle is over. What's next?"
"This time is entirely yours, you can talk about anything you want." Chen Quan smiled.
After thinking about it, Du Caige said, "I want to talk about Duan Xiaochen..."
...
At 6 o'clock, Du Caige took the stack of A4 paper that Chen Quan had printed and sealed in a kraft paper bag, came to the door, thanked Chen Quan and said goodbye.
Chen Quan still had that gentle and understanding smile on his face: "According to your current situation, I think the frequency of consultation once every two weeks is enough. Please remember, two weeks later, at the same time. If you want to cancel the consultation , or if you need to move the time temporarily, you must call me in advance, otherwise I will still charge you."
"I know the rules of this business. So today's consultation fee..."
Before he could finish, he was interrupted by Chen Quan: "Your consultation fee has already been paid in advance."
Du Caige was a little surprised: "Can you tell me who it is?"
"Sorry, I promised to keep that lovely girl a secret. She is also my patient. In fact, when you were in financial distress, she paid for several consultations, if you remember."
Du Caige understood in seconds, "Duan Xiaochen?"
Chen Quan looked at him with a smile. He didn't say anything, but persuaded: "I suggest you don't have to go into it. For you or that girl, this is not a figure worthy of your attention, nor is it a human favor."
Du Caige nodded: "I know. However, it's hard not to be moved when you learn that someone cares about you in every way."
"We can open up on this topic in the next consultation if you wish."
"Let's talk about it next time. Thank you again, Teacher Chen Quan." Du Caige waved goodbye.
After watching Du Caige leave, Chen Quan's eyes became a little dignified, he returned to her computer, put on his reading glasses, opened a file, and started recording.
Consultation 18, May 8, 2008.
The temperament of the visitor has changed greatly, as well as the word usage and language style. It can be said that a person has completely changed.
It can be seen as a huge change in personality. A rapid personality change in such a short period of time is usually accompanied by strong mental stimulation and even mental disorders.
However, according to observation and judgment, the client has no psychotic symptoms.
The counselor deliberately examined some small details, such as telling him that he had never mentioned who his child's biological mother was, and he had no doubts.
Judging by all the signs, he was indeed completely amnesic.
In addition, the client may suddenly have a super memory.
The emergence of super memory ability, which is accompanied by complete amnesia of past events, may have some specific meaning, which will be tried to verify in the next consultation.
If true... delete, delete, delete.
The visitor uses the third person to address the former him, which seems to be separated from the past.
He seems to think that he is a hidden second personality, and wakes up after the death of the first personality? Is there depersonalization, or dissociative personality? Or Schizotypal Personality Disorder? Pending verification.
At present, the client has stable mood, no aggression, no depressive symptoms, no psychotic symptoms, and is eager to receive hypnotherapy to awaken the memory of the past.
But the visitor considers himself to be a traveler, and firmly believes in it. In the absence of any other psychiatric symptoms, this cognitive bias may represent something less favorable.
Consider lightly hypnotizing him from your next consultation.
Consultation process:
Interviewer: I forgot that I had a daughter, and I forgot about my marital status.
Counselor: You have never been married and are still single. I don't know who your daughter's mother is, just guessing.
Interviewer: How old is my daughter?
Consultation: 6 years old.
Interviewer: I don't think I have any psychological problems. I'm very happy now. I just want to know about my past...
...
Du Caige came out of the consultation room and stood downstairs for a while, carefully reviewing what he had said before and Chen Quan's expression.
no problem.
It looks like the consultation should go smoothly.
Then he hurried to meet with Fan Yuhong for dinner, talk while eating, and outline the things to be dealt with next.
Fan Yuhong has been listening carefully.
Then the two made an appointment to meet tomorrow morning. Fan Yuhong had a contract template there. If Du Caige had no problem with reading it, he would just sign it.
Neither of them drank. Du Caige found out that Fan Yuhong seemed to have been patiently enduring something, but he also had his own thoughts. He was always thinking about his daughter and was a little absent-minded, so he didn't ask any more questions.
But when the two finished eating and were about to drive home, Fan Yuhong asked, "What's the matter with you today? You don't seem to be in a good state? Did you feel uncomfortable being scolded by that Lu Wu?"
"He doesn't count as scolding, right?" Du Caige smiled, "As a senior in the literary world, even if he speaks against the old and sells the old, I can only recognize it with my nose."
Fan Yuhong pointed at him with a smile: "You, after listening to the first half of your sentence, I thought you became honest. After listening to it, I realized that you are still so arrogant."