Chapter 324 The dream of hugging left and right
Du Caige thought about it for a moment and said, "I'll sort out my thoughts and come to see Mr. He in a few days. What time is convenient for Mr. He?"
"Master said, as long as you come, whenever it's convenient, she will make sure to wait on the bed and greet you on the back."
Long Jiumei did not know when she had come over to eavesdrop.
Du Caige picked up the phone and walked away, and Long Jiumei snorted in dissatisfaction.
After chatting a few words with Xu Qingya, we decided the time to visit Mr. He, and after telling Xu Qingya Du Qiqi's number, Du Caige returned to the sofa and sat down.
Long Jiumei came over.
She glanced at Du Caige, then lowered her eyelids, and said casually, "This girl has a very young voice. How old is she?"
"19 years old."
"College students, I'm a little younger, and maybe I'm not ready to marry my husband and teach children... But it's okay, it's fine to talk for a few years," Long Jiumei said. "She has a nice voice. What does the family do?"
When Du Caige chatted with Xu Qingya before, he already knew some information about her family.
Her grandmother, Grandma Sun, and Sun Youjie, are national treasure artists and receive state subsidies.
Her grandfather Xu Peiju used to be a political leader, a top official in the frontier, and the ruling party.
Although it has now retired, but the old disciples are still everywhere.
Her father's family background, is a singing artist in the army, major general rank.
Her mother runs a chain of restaurants, a chain of Internet cafes, and a chain of small supermarkets. Du Caige estimates that she has at least tens of millions of assets.
Therefore, Xu Qingya is actually a standard rich second generation, and she is white and rich.
After Du Caige picked up some superficial information about Xu Qingya's home situation, Long Jiumei kept nodding her head in satisfaction.
At the end, he didn't say it too explicitly, just understatement: "The little girl is a good person, let's get in touch with her more. It's not good for you to be sullen all the time, you need to get along with young and lively girls more. If you are an artist, you should also You have to keep a young mind to write good works. Your dead father was also a romantic and talented man back then, and he settled down when he met me."
Du Caige didn't expose his mother's bragging.
In fact, Du Zhiqiu is an honest person, and has been eaten to death by Long Jiumei.
Flirtatious? If Du Zhiqiu had dared to be romantic, his leg would have been broken long ago.
When Du Zhiqiu was mentioned, Long Jiumei started to wipe her tears uncontrollably, and Du Caige and Du Rongqi had no choice but to comfort her.
In the afternoon, Du Ranqi found her brother and said unhappily, "Mom wants me to help you."
"Help me with what?"
Du Yanqi glared at him: "Help you find girls!"
"???"
Du Ruoqi said angrily, "That sister Xu. Mom asked me to help you connect and catch her. She said that she has a good family and is worthy of you, and she is not allowed to contact sister Xiaochen again. "
"Just ignore her. I will also make it clear to her that if she wants to interfere in my affairs, then I will buy her a suite, ask her to live out, and then hire a nanny for her. I want to live with us, Just don't interfere in our affairs."
Du Yanqi kept nodding: "That's how it should be."
Although she was the one who brought her mother back, she regretted it less than a day after her mother came back.
...
Du Caige didn't have much festive mood.
The editing of "Those Years", the update of "Romance of the Dragon and Snake", and the "Ghost Blowing the Lantern" facing the finale all took a lot of his energy.
It's only during the holidays.
After the festival is over, the company will have a small meeting to meet with Shu Yihuan and Meng Zhaolong to discuss the script, the production and distribution of Duan Xiaochen's Sakurajima single, the preparation of the second micro-movie, and the invitation of some cultural people...
Du Caige felt breathless.
Fortunately, he has a place to rest, complain, and unload his burdens.
"I sometimes feel like I'm being cheap. I obviously like the easy life, but I always take care of myself." Sitting opposite Chen Quan, the lighting was soft, and Du Caige looked lazy.
It's already night, because Du Caige has delayed two consultations because of something, this is a temporary consultation.
"Perhaps, although you like an easy life, you are more concerned with realizing your self-worth."
"Yeah... the need for self-actualization is the highest human need."
"kindness?"
Du Caige then remembered that due to different history and culture in this world, there is no Maslow, and naturally there is no famous "Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Theory."
Du Caige pretended lightly and said: "I think people's needs should be divided into five levels. From low to high, they are physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging needs..."
"Wait, you say slow down!"
Chen Quan was keenly aware of the value of these passages, "I don't have a good memory, can you allow me to record what you said? I think what you said is very inspiring."
"Of course you can." You also need to have a bosom friend when you pretend to be a bee.
You run up to Tony Stark and you say, "I'm the most talented musician. I innovate music, I lead new genres, I..."
Tony Stark: "I don't know music, I'm just rich. How much is your song?"
You say: "I'm the most talented painter. I innovate painting techniques, I create whole new genres..."
Tony Stark: "I don't know how to draw, I'm just rich. How much are your drawings?"
Can this be beeping happily?
But if you say the same thing in front of a beautiful, boring lady, maybe it will make the other person burst into laughter, and then you pretend to be successful, and you can enjoy tenderness and enthusiasm at night...
The same is true.
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Theory is a piece of shit for businessmen, lawyers, drivers, white-collar workers...
Useless.
Can you eat? Do you understand that this can give you an extra half-month bonus?
But for psychologists, the hierarchy of needs theory is a 100-carat flawless pink diamond.
It is a rare treasure of inestimable value!
When Chen Quan started the recording, Du Caige continued to pretend: "The fourth level of need is the need for respect. The fifth level is the need for self-realization."
"These five levels of needs must be satisfied from low to high. For example, it is difficult for people to consider self-actualization needs until physiological needs and safety needs are met."
Chen Quan kept nodding his head.
This is one of the highest crystallizations of psychology and philosophy on earth. As an excellent psychological counselor, Chen Quan can of course recognize its value.
After Du Caige made a fool of what he remembered, Chen Quan turned off the recording and said with a smile: "I have to study it carefully, everything you just said can be sorted out and written into a book, and it will definitely detonate the entire psychology community. masterpiece."
"Mr. Chen, you've won the prize." Du Caige felt a little boring after he finished pretending.
"Let's focus on your problem." Chen Quan is still very professional.
Du Caige thought about it for a while, and confessed: "Actually, what bothers me the most recently is the relationship between me and the two women. I like Duan Xiaochen, but I don't have feelings for Yan Yingzhen. If I think about Caiwei, it seems that I should work hard with Yan Yingzhen. Repair the relationship. But I can't bear Duan Xiaochen. "
Chen Quan nodded: "So in the final analysis, you want both, and you don't want to give up. I understand."
Du Caige smiled bitterly and said, "Am I very scum? So I don't dare to develop too deeply with Duan Xiaochen now. Although I know that she wants to establish a relationship with me, she doesn't mind me...that. But I can't make up my mind."
Chen Quan showed a gentle and understanding smile: "I will not make any moral judgments on you. I am your counselor, I just help you know yourself and learn to accept yourself."
After a pause, she added: "Of course, I can't teach you how to have both sides. It's not moral, but I can't teach you what to do. In modern society, you want to have the love of two girls at the same time. , it's hard. Especially, these two girls are so good."
"Even if you can really hug and hug each other, I don't think you will be happy in the process. Maybe there will be more troubles."
Du Caige shrugged.
Hug left and right is the dream of young people.
As an experienced person, of course, he is very clear that although hugging left and right is good for a while, but in the long run, it will bring more trouble and pain.
When he was on earth, after his divorce, he had two girlfriends at the same time.
These two girlfriends have good personalities, their status is relatively ordinary, and they are not arrogant.
And very restrained, almost never tearing.
In this way, he often feels stressed and troubled.
It's not easy to get a bowl of water level.
So, having Duan Xiaochen and Yan Yingzhen at the same time?
It can only be imagined in a dream.
Of course not in reality.
He didn't have the air of domineering, so he couldn't shake the body of a tiger, so he let the two beauties bow their heads and stick them upside down as if they had been fed ecstasy.
Duan Xiaochen and Yan Yingzhen have their own temperaments and their own pride.
In their respective fields, they are all the arrogant women standing at the top.
One is the Queen of Heaven, and the other is the richest woman in Dahua.
Even ordinary girls have a hard time agreeing to share their love with other women.
What's more, such a proud woman?
Du Caige also knew that this problem would not be solved for a while, unless he made up his mind to choose a certain one.
In front of Chen Quan, he can only complain, and it is impossible to find a solution.
After talking for a while, Chen Quan said: "By the way, I have been asking my friends to inquire about the 'Lingquan Studio' and the woman you are talking about named Yiyi."
Du Caige was refreshed and sat up to listen.
"A few days ago, a friend gave me feedback that in Moling City, there is a spiritual sect called 'Lingquan Studio', which often holds spiritual salons. The organizer is a woman in her 40s, and she looks very suitable. Your description of 'Yiyi'. But when he came to inquire again, he found that 'Lingquan Studio' had closed."
"He found a few people who often go to 'Lingquan Studio' to participate in spiritual salons, and confirmed that the hostess is indeed 'Yiyi', but now he can't be contacted."
"I asked him to help continue to pay attention. If you have anything to do with it, you can push for a more detailed investigation."
Du Caige has always been concerned about this matter, and immediately nodded gratefully: "I will follow up, Teacher Chen Quan, thank you so much."
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