Chapter 547

Chapter 547

Well, for example, our family Xiao Huo, in order to allow her to enter society safely, Hei Yang and I tried hard to take into account all the unstable factors and wanted to teach her everything we could teach her.

Even so, when I think about Xiaohuo entering society on her own in the future, I still feel very worried and concerned! "

"certainly……"

Hongli paused and explained to Xiaohuo with some embarrassment: "Mom didn't mean to treat you as a burden.

Not to mention that this is our responsibility in the first place. In fact, when we are with our family, we can spend more time with you and teach you more knowledge while the fire is still small. We also enjoy it!

So Xiaohuo don't think too much, and don't feel embarrassed or guilty. "

"Oh, hey."

Xiao Huo said with an embarrassed smile: "I know, I know, Xiao Huo didn't think too much about it at all!"

"Hmm, it's good that I didn't think too much about it."

After a pause, Hongli joked: "But having said that, the tacit understanding between our mother and daughter is still not enough!

If it were your father, I wouldn't have to worry about him thinking too much, I know he would definitely understand what I mean. "

"Ah this..."

Xiaohuo clenched his little fists and said with determination: "Xiaohuo will definitely work hard to improve his tacit understanding with his mother and strive to be the same as his father!"

"Haha, that's not necessary."

Hong Li was amused and said with a smile: "Parents have always guessed what their children are thinking, how can there be any reason to let children look at their parents' expressions?

When talking to your parents, do you still need to speculate on the holy will? That would be too tiring!

As long as you know that you really respect your parents and have that filial piety in your heart, that's enough.

Well, just like I talk to your father, grandparents, and the rest, isn’t it what I just said? "

"Oh haha."

Xiao Huo showed a thoughtful expression.

"Listening to what you said, you really understand it!"

Yao Qingkong looked at Hongli with a smile, nodded happily, and said with emotion: "Yes, Zi Sheng and I will enter a new stage in our lives from now on.

We must nurture our offspring, teach them to become talented, and watch them grow up and become excellent step by step. We must also be extremely cautious to avoid leading our children in the wrong direction.

Thinking about it, it's still a bit stressful. I feel like I haven't learned how to be a human being yet, and I have to teach a little life like a blank slate how to behave. "

Yao Qingkong sighed softly, shook his head and said with a smile: "But it's okay, it's pressure but also motivation. The next life will be full of purpose and meaning!"

"Come on then."

Hongli gave her blessing, but she also had her own ideas about the cultivation of her children.

"In fact, in my opinion, children do not necessarily have to be outstanding.

As long as they can live a happy, healthy and peaceful life without causing trouble to others.

In this regard, Hei Yang and I actually have the same view. After all, we were not outstanding children who met our parents' expectations at the beginning, hehe.

Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. Our parents understood us in the beginning, and when we become parents, we naturally have to understand our children as well. "

"Besides, if you push the child too hard and even the smile disappears, wouldn't it be worth the loss?"

Speaking of this, Hongli suddenly looked a little dazed. She naturally thought of Hei Yang's past, those days that sounded very distressing to her, and she suddenly had new feelings in her heart.

“We hope that our children will be successful, and we hope that our daughters will be successful. When parents are so busy, they will find that what they want most is for their children to be safe.

Isn’t the original intention of making them excellent in the first place just to make them live a better life?

Of course you can have expectations, which will turn into motivation to push the children forward, but when the expectations become a burden that overwhelms the children and makes them frightened and afraid of being punished if they do not do well, then I think it is already a problem. It’s divorced from its essence. "

"But then again..."

Hong Li showed her dead fish eyes, and there was a look of helpless struggle in her eyes, thinking of some not-so-good memories.

"It's not just for the sake of happiness, you have to indulge your children blindly.

For example, the days when Hei Yang and I were pulled out of bed to exercise every morning..."

Hong Li looked sad. It was a past that she was grateful for but never wanted to go back to.

Not only did he have to exercise on time every morning and evening, rain or shine, but his parents would also conduct spot checks every once in a while to compare him with Hei Yang.

It is said that if anyone lags behind the other party continuously, he will be punished horribly.

Hong Li still doesn't know what the so-called horrific punishment is.

For this, she still had to thank his current husband, Hei Yang, who was not the hateful King Juan.

The two of them have a tacit understanding and maintain almost the same level. Today you win a round and tomorrow I will win a round. The day after tomorrow you will be better than me at arm wrestling and the day after tomorrow I will run faster than you.

The competition between the two to direct together was really fierce and very anxious. There was no winner or loser, and the parents could hardly tell the difference. This is why no one of them has been affected by the legendary film for more than ten years. Horrible punishment.

Speaking of that situation, as long as one person can't trust the other party and feels that the other party may take advantage of his laziness to work hard secretly.

In the end, it will definitely evolve into a situation where both of them will suffer!

So the unbreakable trust between her and Hei Yang seems to have been cultivated from that time?

Thinking about it this way, my parents were really foresighted at that time!

However, because there are minimum standards, Black Sun Red Glass cannot be too obvious.

If you really want to make your parents look like fools, they will definitely beat them both up!

Thinking of her parents' "cruel" methods, Hongli shrank her neck subconsciously.

Yao Qingkong, on the other hand, was a little stunned by what Hong Li said and couldn't help but fall into thinking.

"Xiao Li, you are right, thank you for the reminder."

Yao Qingkong let out a long breath, looked at her newborn child with emotion, and said with gentle eyes: "As long as your ability is sufficient, you have to be a little tighter in terms of morality.

Make one or two true close friends, grow up happily, meet someone you like and have your own home..."

"Xiao Li..."

Yao Qingkong looked up at Hongli again and praised: "As expected, she is a senior mother with nearly two years of experience. She knows much more than me in this regard."

"Ah this..."

Hong Li scratched her head in embarrassment and laughed loudly: "Do you really think so?

Haha, in fact, I am also talking nonsense, it may not be correct, and you should not take it all seriously. "

"You don't have to be modest. Your words really taught me a lot."

Yao Qingkong showed an expression of relief.

"To be honest, ever since I found out I was pregnant with the child, I have been worried that if I can't teach her well with my ability, or if I don't have enough experience, I'm afraid something might happen to her while she's growing up, and I'm extremely nervous.

And now with Hongli, your words immediately gave me a sense of security, and I felt a lot more at ease. I lowered my requirements a little for her, which is actually giving up some requirements for me as a parent..."

"I don't mean to lower my requirements."

Hongli couldn't help but corrected: "It's to understand what the child really wants!

If a child wants to become a very good person in the future and needs parental supervision, he should not be pampered or pampered, nor should he be treated perfunctorily in education.

Just like Xiaohuo, we hope she can live a peaceful life like us, but she also yearns for a better version of herself.

So when we usually play, we also have strict requirements in terms of education. "

"Well, Xiaoli, you are right!"

Yao Qingkong nodded repeatedly with a look of admiration, stretched out his hand and gently stroked the child's face.

“In this way, we will save a lot of unnecessary worries, but at the same time we are still worried that our children will be influenced by others, such as making bad friends or being led astray.

In fact, when I was a child, because I followed some senior brothers and sisters to secretly play tricks, I always cheated and passed the sect's alchemy examinations.

I have wasted nearly half a year, retreating instead of advancing in my ability. I feel that the results obtained by cheating are my own, and I am complacent and blindly arrogant.

Until one day, I heard that senior brothers and sisters of their class had undergone another extremely strict assessment. In that assessment, their little tricks were discovered. They were recorded with serious demerits and were also criticized by many fellow disciples for them. Feel ashamed.

And not long after, I heard that our current class also needed to conduct an assessment of that scale, and I finally panicked.

"Even if I don't cheat, my own strength shouldn't be too bad."

That's what I thought at the time, because I didn't dare to play tricks anymore. I looked at him in the examination room and was confused. "

At this point, Yao Qingkong couldn't help but laugh out loud. He laughed helplessly and shook his head: "The final result can be imagined. When the scores came out, I was dumbfounded. I, who had no self-awareness all this time, finally tasted the bitter pill. …

Later, fortunately, Master helped me point out my mistakes and led me back to the right path, so I didn't make the same mistake again. "

"Ha, you can't do it now."

Hong Li raised her eyebrows with a proud expression.

“When I was in school, I was always number one.

The teachers all praised me and said that among the students he taught, there was only one who did better than me. "

After a pause, Hongli looked at the curious faces of Xiaohuo and Yao Qingkong and smiled sheepishly.

"What a coincidence, isn't it! The one who does better than me is called Hei Yang, hehe."

"Wow!"

Xiaohuo looked shocked: "What a coincidence. That person's name is exactly the same as his father's. What a coincidence!"

Yao Qingkong: "???"

Hongli: "What I caught was fish, but what I didn't catch was cough cough bah bah..."

Hong Li quickly covered her mouth mid-sentence to avoid the tragedy of hunting herself.

Hong Li was completely different from Yao Qingkong. Yao Qingkong's brain was immediately shut down by Xiaohuo's words.

Hong Li glanced at Xiao Huo with dead fish eyes.

"Damn girl, I'm pretending to be confused with your mother here, right?"

"Hey hey hey."

Xiao Huo couldn't help but laugh out loud, and said sheepishly: "Because mom's eyes and expressions always look different when she mentions dad, so I couldn't help but think, hehehe..."

"he he he."

Hong Li revealed her half-moon eyes, imitated Xiao Huo's laughter without emotion, and threatened half-jokingly and half-seriously: "Little girl, just cherish the time you have now!

You are still young and I am not willing to beat your mother. When you are older, you will see if your mother will hit you with big bumps on your head. "

"Ah this!"

Xiao Huo's expression froze, and he quickly showed a pitiful and cute look.

"Oh, no, no, Xiao Huo is so good and cute, my mother will definitely not be willing to do it!"

"Humph, that's not necessarily the case."

Hong Li curled her lips: "Your mother and I are so cute too, why don't I still be coughed by that guy Hei Yang..."

Hong Li glanced to the side while speaking, Yao Qingkong's eyes suddenly lit up, and she immediately shut her mouth warily. What a good guy, he actually eavesdropped on what happened in their home, right?

"Ah this..."

Yao Qingkong looked at Hong Li's wary look and knew that he had been discovered. He smiled awkwardly and quickly changed the subject.

"Haha, that Xiaoli Xiaoyang, you two were really good when you were young, hahaha."

"Hmm, we must have been great when we were young. Are we like you?"

Hongli looked at Yao Qingkong with a look on her face.

Yao Qingkong: "..."

It’s not like this can also hit her in a group fight, right?

"Hey, why are you so proud? At that time, we were practicing knowledge, which was of course profound and mysterious. At that time, you were just ordinary knowledge in the mortal world!"

Yao Qingkong retorted with a look of displeasure: "There's no comparison at all, okay!"

"Ah, are you serious about practicing?"

Hong Li was stunned and looked at Yao Qingkong with strange eyes: "How many years did it take for me to go from practicing Qi to Yuanying to Yuanying in more than a year?"

Yao Qingkong: "..."