Chapter 79: Dad Rules 1
The father and daughter walked to the pedestrian street. Han Doudou was exhausted and didn't want to take another step. After sweeping his eyes, he found a clean stone chair and sat on it. Car, if you insist on walking, your legs will be gone, but the fare is only two yuan, I really don’t know what you are saving.”
Han Ze glanced at her: "Isn't two dollars money? Besides, insisting on walking has nothing to do with the fare. I drive all day and lack of exercise. You should take it as exercise with me. You can't walk if you only walk so little. Move your legs, obviously you need to exercise too. Stop sitting, get up quickly, and let's go have breakfast."
Han Doudou limply slumped on the stone chair, and said lazily, "You pack it for me and bring it here. I'll rest here for a while."
Han Ze followed her: "What do you want to eat?"
Han Doudou said casually.
Han Ze glanced at her with a smile, then whatever. In ten or twenty minutes, he went back and forth and handed the bought breakfast to Han Doudou. Han Doudou opened the package and took a look, "Why is steamed bun soy milk? You know I don't like steamed stuffed soy milk, so you bought it for me."
Han Ze said calmly, "I asked you what to eat, and you said whatever you wanted."
Han Doudou choked and argued, "But you know I don't like steamed stuffed buns and soy milk. Besides, the steamed stuffed buns in this store are really unpalatable."
Han Ze was displeased and looked at her seriously: "I worked so hard to buy you breakfast, you should say thank you to me instead of complaining to me."
Han Doudou was stunned for a moment, before reacting, he said, "What are you doing so seriously? You are my father, you just bought me breakfast, thank you for what you say."
Han Ze suddenly asked, "Han Doudou, how old are you this year?"
"Seventeen."
Han Doudou didn't know why, and his tone was a little impatient.
"I remember when you were in kindergarten, when your dad helped you with a meal, you would tell me thank you obediently. Now that you are seventeen and a sophomore in high school, you can't even say thank you to your dad? The older you are, the less you know. Gratitude, or do you think I'm your father, I should buy you breakfast, and I don't deserve a thank you?" Han Ze asked.
Han Doudou stopped talking too much, he just helped her buy breakfast, why did he teach her so much on the line.
Han Ze didn't care about the girl's silent resistance, he said softly, "Since you don't like steamed stuffed bun soy milk, give it to me, I'll eat it."
"Didn't you have breakfast?"
Han Doudou really didn't like buns and soy milk, so he handed them to his father without thinking.
Han Ze took the steamed stuffed bun and said, "I only ate two buns."
After finishing the steamed stuffed bun soy milk, Han Ze said, "Let's go, let's go buy you shoes."
Han Doudou looked at her father in astonishment, and she said, "I haven't eaten breakfast yet."
Han Ze threw the **** in his hand into the trash can, and he said, "What does it have to do with me?"
"You are my father." Han Doudou stared.
"Yes, I'm your dad. I asked you what you want to eat, and you said whatever you wanted. I bought you breakfast casually, but you didn't like it. In this case, if you want to eat breakfast, you can only find your own way." Han Ze said.
Han Doudou said incredulously: "Where is such an unreasonable father like you? You know that I don't like buns and soy milk, but you insist on buying them for me. Dad, you will abuse my physical and mental health by doing this, do you know that? "
Seeing her sitting still, Han Ze followed him on the stone chair, his tone solemn and implied worry: "You are so picky, bossy and bossy to your father, the daughter who treats him like a slave. As a father, my physical and mental health are also affected. I have suffered a serious injury, and I am worried that I will get Alzheimer's disease from your anger if I am not sixty years old."
"When will I put..."
Han Doudou didn't say a word, but seeing her father's aggrieved eyes, she couldn't continue. Well, she really likes to pick three checks and four checks, but she really didn't treat her father as a slave, and her father wronged her.
Han Ze said slowly: "You don't think of me as a slave in your heart, but what you do is no different from treating me as a slave. You always tell me to respect each other, don't ignore your wishes, I think You are quite right. I helped you do things, but in the end you disliked me. Although I am your father and an elder, my father is also a human being. His heart is fragile. He also wants equality and the respect of his own children. , and also afraid of being harmed by children.”
Han Doudou was shocked by her father's words. She opened her mouth, not knowing what to say. What father said was right. Respect is mutual. She wants to be respected by father. Doesn't father want to be respected by her? ? She used to think that her father was meddling her, that he was a man, why was he so talkative, and she looked down on him very much, but she never thought that what she did could also hurt her father.
She thought to herself that she was a good boy in the new era, with a forward thinking, and she always felt that her father was stubborn and an old way of thinking. In his heart, as long as he didn't like to study, he was not a good boy, but is that really the case?
She was a little ashamed in her heart, but she was not convinced: "I have always respected my father."
Han Ze looked at her: "For example?"
E.g?
Han Doudou was stunned, and tried hard to recall in her mind what things she had done to respect her father, but at the end of the thought, there was nothing in her mind, she had never done anything to respect her father, she pursed her lips, not talking anymore.
Han Ze said disappointedly: "Even if there is nothing wrong with it, it may be that I have failed as a father and don't deserve your respect."
Han Doudou was even more speechless. After her parents divorced, she chose to be with her father. It can be seen that she likes her father more than her mother.
Seeing that it was almost finished, Han Ze stood up and said, "It's time to rest, I'll take you to have breakfast so you won't be hungry."
Han Doudou followed suit and stood up, and asked in a whisper, "Didn't you just say that I should figure it out myself?"
Why did you say to take her to have breakfast?
Han Ze looked at her, "This is the difference between Dad and you. Although Dad is angry at you for picking three checks and four checks and not being grateful, he is still reluctant to let you go hungry. This shows that Dad cares about your heart, just like you care about Dad. , is not equal, I am on the weak side in front of you."
Han Doudou's eyes widened, dissatisfied: "Obviously you like to control me, but in the end, it seems that I have become the overlord of the family, bullying you all day long, am I so bad?"
Han Ze walked forward, "You don't call me every day."
Han Doudou pouted, followed her father, and said dissatisfiedly: "Dad, I'm your daughter, how could anyone dislike my daughter so much?"
Han Ze looked back at her: "Look, when you are unreasonable, you will say, Dad, I am your daughter, how could you do this; Dad, I am your daughter, how could you be like that. But have you thought about it?" But, you are my daughter and a student, how can you not study hard? This is your duty now, isn't it? "
Han Doudou curled her lips: "It's about studying again."
Han Ze said: "Look, you are always so domineering. You are only allowed to talk about me, and I am not allowed to talk about you. But you are my daughter, you can ignore me, but I can't ignore you, because I want to treat you You are responsible for your future life. If you don’t live well, I will feel guilty and feel that I didn’t manage you well when I was a child. I can understand you, but you can’t understand me. "
Han Doudou was speechless by what his father said, and could only say: "I will study hard. But I still want to say that learning is not the criterion for judging a child's quality."
Han Ze smiled and said, "This father knows."
Han Doudou snorted.
Han Ze continued: "Dad just thinks that you are already a sophomore in high school. You should know what to do and what not to do. Spending time doing meaningless things is a waste of time. You should set yourself a goal , what you want to do in the future, and what position you will achieve in society, you must know it well. Dad is just a taxi driver and cannot give you a rich life. If you want to live a luxurious life, you can only rely on yourself. Seventeen years old Now, I should be able to understand the meaning of what Dad said."
Han Doudou bit her lip, and she said, "Anyone can say something, but it's so difficult to do."
Han Ze looked at her: "You didn't even do it, so how do you know it's difficult?"
Han Doudou glared at him: "You don't have many shortcomings yourself. You only talk about me, nagging."
"I've said so much, but you still haven't listened to it?" Han Ze looked at her and said without showing emotion.
Han Doudou lowered her head, she listened. At least she knows that if she wants to be respected by her father, she must learn to respect him. Don't keep thinking that she is her father's daughter, and she should get whatever she wants from her father.
Han Ze looked at her expression, smiled and said nothing, it seems that she still listened more or less, that's good.
After Han Doudou had breakfast, the two went to the shopping mall. Han Doudou walked in front, running towards her favorite brand. Han Ze followed her slowly, and Han Doudou said anxiously, "Dad, hurry up."
Han Ze smiled and quickened his pace. He walked up to her in a few steps, turned his head and glanced at the shelves, and asked the salesperson, "Are you offering a discount?"
The salesperson smiled and said, "There are no discounts for the new models, only these few models are discounted."
Han Ze nodded, looked sideways at Han Doudou, and said, "Those pairs of shoes are on sale, let the salesperson bring them for you to try?"
Han Doudou glanced at the discounted pairs of shoes, which were the old models from last year, and she was unhappy. She said, "Dad, our budget is 1,000 yuan."
Han Ze said, "They are all of the same brand of shoes, the difference is not too big, and they cost more than 1,000 when there is no discount." After a pause, he turned to ask the salesperson, "How much are these discounted shoes? A pair of money?"
The salesperson explained with a smile: "When these shoes were not discounted, they sold for about 1200 yuan. Now they are 50% off, and a pair costs more than 600 yuan."
Han Ze looked at the discounted pairs of shoes, pointed to one of them and said, "Give her a pair of size 37 to try."
Han Doudou pouted, reluctantly said: "Father, I want to buy a new model."
Han Ze frowned and asked her, "Don't you always wear it? Even if it's a new model, it will wear out after a while. What's the difference? It's just a waste of money."
Han Doudou complained: "Father, what you say doesn't count, and neither do I. I'm going to play games."
Han Ze was also angry, and his tone was stern: "Since you are going to play games, there is no need to buy these more than 600 pairs of shoes. Let's go back."
Han Doudou grabbed his father's arm and said, "My shoe is broken."
Han Ze looked at her with raised eyebrows: "What's none of my business?"
Han Doudou's eyes were red: "You are my father."
Han Ze said, "I'm your father, and you won't listen to me? If that's the case, you don't have to ask me for anything."
Han Doudou asked: "Father, how can you do this? You promised me that you would give me 1,000 yuan to buy shoes for me, but now you backtrack and don't keep promises. If you are like this, how can I trust you in the future?"
Han Ze calmly said, "I learned from you. Before, you promised me to study hard, and every time you said yes, you should play games or play games."
Han Doudou choked, and her father learned to be smart enough to gag her with her shortcomings.
Han Ze said again: "Through this incident, you should know that no one can be easily trusted."
Han Doudou rolled her eyes, and she asked, "You are my father, so am I still wary of you every day?"
Han Ze smiled and said: "Even if I am your father, you can't trust me completely. After all, sometimes, even I don't trust myself 100%. Sometimes I decide to do something, but for various reasons, Often not."
Han Doudou bit her lip, and she asked, "Then who do you think can be trusted?"
Han Ze asked, "Do you have a good relationship with Xu Yining?"
Han Doudou nodded, "Our relationship has always been very good."
Han Ze asked her: "You must trust her very much, right?"
Han Doudou nodded again.
Han Ze continued: "For example, Xu Yining borrowed 10,000 yuan from you. When she returned the money, you trusted her and didn't check it out face to face. When you came back, you found that 100 yuan was missing. Even Xu Yining didn't do it on purpose. Yes, at that time, what would you think in your heart?"
Han Doudou pouted, "This analogy is not valid. I don't have that much money to lend to Xu Yining, and Xu Yining's family has money, so she won't ask me to borrow money."
Han Ze smiled and said, "I'm just saying, what would you think if something like that happened?"
Han Doudou pursed her lips and said nothing, if it happened, she would not think about it.
Han Ze replied for her: "If something like that really happens, no matter what you think, it will be a test for your friendship. The trust between friends is precious, but sometimes just because you trust each other, you will inadvertently If the money was counted face to face, would this kind of thing happen again?"
Han Doudou thought about it for a while, and with her temperament and her relationship with Xu Yining, when paying back the money, she might not check it out in person.
Han Ze smiled and said: "So no matter who is involved in wealth and things, you must find out in person, so as not to make a mistake, and you will not be able to explain it at that time. It's like buying shoes today. If you are at home, you have to ask Dad I will give you a thousand yuan, the money is in your hands, you can buy any shoes you want, do you still need to bargain with Dad?"
Han Doudou pouted and glanced at him: "I was only fooled this time, so don't try to fool me next time."
Han Ze smiled. He really hoped that the child would learn to be good. He said, "Go and try on the shoes."
Han Doudou sighed, Jiang was really old and spicy, she thought she was smart, but she couldn't figure out her father.
In the end, I still bought discounted shoes according to my father's wishes.
But think about it, a pair of shoes used to cost more than 100, and the more expensive ones were more than 200. Now she bought a pair of 600 shoes, and she didn't suffer a loss. Thinking of this, most of the depression in her heart finally disappeared.
After buying Han Doudou's new shoes, she put them on. When she walked out of the shopping mall, she looked at the shoes on her feet, and the more she looked at them, the happier she was. This brand of shoes, even if they were old models, she liked so much.
The father and daughter went out of the mall to buy vegetables, and then walked home again.
Although Han Doudou complained, thinking of what her father said about mutual respect, her father ran so far to accompany her to buy shoes. Although the shoes were not the style in her mind, they were still her favorite brand and style, but she just walked on the road with her father. Sore legs are also tolerable.
Back home, Han Ze sat on the sofa and said, "My legs hurt from walking, you can cook at noon."
"I cook?"
Han Doudou looked at his father suspiciously, and Han Ze nodded with a smile: "You are seventeen years old, you should be able to do such a simple thing as cooking?"
Han Doudou frowned, and said dissatisfiedly: "I've never cooked, can the cooked food be eaten?"
Han Ze said indifferently: "As long as it's my daughter's cooking, I won't dislike it if I cook whatever daddy eats."
Han Doudou was speechless, but still said: "Father, I really don't know how to do it."
Han Ze looked at her, "It's no reason not to know how to cook. There are recipes at home to learn. No matter how bad it is, Dad can teach you in person. Dad rarely takes a rest, and it's a pity that he can't drink. Let Dad enjoy the blessing of his daughter and eat. A ready-made meal."
Han Doudou muttered, it's not possible to order takeaway. But I also know that my father is frugal. He bought so many vegetables in the supermarket just now, and he will not allow takeaway. Thinking of this, she reluctantly went to the kitchen. She looked at the vegetables in the bag and was at a loss. She really didn't know what to do. After thinking about it, she called out to the living room: "Dad, how do you make the rice?"
Han Ze got up and walked to the kitchen. He said, "Wash the pot in the rice cooker and dry the water at the bottom of the pot."
Han Doudou said oh, and after cleaning the cooking pot clumsily, and carefully wiped it clean, she said, "How much rice do you need?"
After Han Ze said the amount, Han Doudou took out the rice, mixed it with water with the help of his father, closed the lid of the pot, and turned on the power. Han Ze said, "Press the cooking button, and that's it."
Han Doudou was ready, looked at Han Ze, and said in surprise, "That's all right?"
Han Ze said: "Yes, that's all. Just wait for it to cook automatically."
Han Doudou opened his eyes wide: "So simple?"
Han Ze smiled: "It's easy to cook, but hard to cook. Today I bought the pliers, let's make steamed pliers, you wash it, cut a few slashes on the fish, sprinkle some salt and cooking wine... ..."
Holding a kitchen knife, Han Doudou carefully and clumsily cut a few times on the fish, making a neat oblique cut. She heaved a sigh of relief, looked at Han Ze, and asked, "Dad, how are you doing?"
Han Ze raised his thumb: "Very good, I didn't expect my daughter to have the talent to cook. Many people cook for the first time, they can't hold the kitchen knife well, and they will hurt their hands. Although you move slowly, the results are very good. it is good."
Han Doudou was a little proud and proud: "It seems that I can't do everything well. I didn't know how to cook before, but that's because I didn't learn."
Han Ze said: "You have learned it now, but you will be able to do it. From now on, as long as you have a holiday, you can cook at home."
"Ah?" Han Doudou stared at him with wide eyes, "I'm a student."
Han Ze said disapprovingly: "What's wrong with the students? Don't the students need to eat?"
Han Doudou stared at him, and Han Ze said again: "You go to school, don't I have to work? There are only two of us in our family, so you can't let me do everything, you should share some housework."
Han Doudou simply didn't know what evil her father had fallen into, so he changed his strategy and didn't ask her to study hard? Could it be that he wanted to play a roundabout tactic so that she would suffer setbacks in other areas, so she would naturally think of the benefits of learning and study hard? Then he was wrong. Although she is average in studies, she is obviously very talented in other areas, such as cooking.
With the help of her father, Han Doudou spent an hour and a half, and finally made lunch. She picked up a piece of fish and ate it in her mouth. The taste filled her mouth. She wrinkled her nose: "It's not as delicious as your cooking, it's too salty .”
Han Ze smiled and said, "Not bad."
The movement of the chopsticks did not stop, obviously eating happily.
Han Doudou pursed her lips, thinking of her father's occasional meal that tasted too salty or bland, she complained non-stop and let go of her anger. Looking at her father's attitude towards her cooking, she felt uncomfortable. She seemed to be a bit domineering and didn't know how to respect her father.
Putting down the bowls and chopsticks, Han Ze said, "The food is well cooked. Next time, put less salt. I believe the taste will be even better."
Han Doudou didn't speak, but nodded to show that she understood. After the meal, Han Ze said, "After washing the dishes, let's do homework."
Han Doudou was very reluctant: "It's not fair, I cook the rice, and I have to wash the dishes?"
Han Ze said: "You talk about fairness with me. After all these years, when will I not cook and wash the dishes?"
Dad wanted to be lazy, Han Doudou had nothing to say, after all he was right, Dad has taken care of her for so many years, now she is a little older, it's nothing more than cooking and washing dishes.
Han Doudou bowed her waist, washing the dishes, and couldn't help sighing that the child was playing tricks in front of the parents, and the parents had no choice but to rely on the child in everything. If parents make up their minds to let their children stand on their own, act lazy in front of them, and let them do everything by themselves, in fact, the children have nothing to do.
Just like her, when her father scolded her severely and asked her to study, she became rebellious and didn't want to study even more. Now my father has learned her temper completely, domineering and willful, and she is lazy and doesn't do housework, but she has nothing to do with him, she can only endure her temper and do things according to his requirements. After all, although father is willful, but He was reasonable, and he also respected her, so she couldn't resist.
At four o'clock in the afternoon, Han Doudou packed her schoolbag and prepared to go to school.
Han Ze came out of his bedroom and took two small books. Han Doudou looked at him curiously: "What?"
Han Ze handed her one of the small books and said, "Dad thought about it all afternoon and made this small book. Take a look."
Han Doudou opened the small book, and there was a line on it, she frowned: "Daughter's rules? What do you mean?"
After speaking, he looked at Han Ze.
Han Ze's face was serious: "Daughter's rules are made for you by father, here is also this father's rules, you take it and write the rules one by one, then father will do things according to the rules you wrote. For the sake of our father and daughter Live in harmony, this little book of daughter’s rules, you carry it with you at all times, when you want to do something, first open it and look at the little book, does it mention that you can’t do those things, if it is mentioned, you will be self-conscious Don't do it."
Han Doudou yelled in disbelief: "Father, you are not serious, are you?"
Han Ze glanced at her: "Of course it's true. If you can't do things according to the daughter's rules, then dad won't do things according to the dad's rules. Dad is disappointed in you, and maybe he will take certain measures against you with your teacher, forcing you You study. See if you are willing to do things according to the code, we father and daughter supervise each other, or you are willing to force me to force you to study. You choose yourself."
Han Doudou looked at the small notebook in his hand, "This is too nonsense, what about the daughter's rules, it's thanks to you who figured it out."
Han Ze spread his hands: "There is no way. We father and daughter will not obey each other. The principles of fairness and mutual respect can only restrain each other through the father's code and the daughter's code."
Han Doudou's eyes flashed, restraining each other? So, can she suggest that her father should not be too strict in her studies? As long as her father didn't care about her being too strict, she gritted her teeth and acted according to the daughter's rules, she agreed.