Chapter 33:
I think mom really likes our
After hearing what the teacher said, Si Tian was slightly taken aback: "Okay, thank you teacher."
She felt a little subtle, as if a child got into trouble at school and was called a parent.
Si Tian was worried that the matter in the kindergarten would not be resolved so quickly, so she called the housekeeper and asked him to pick up Ji Ningyi. If she was late, Ji Ningyi would be too lonely waiting for a child at school.
After making the phone call, Si Tian walked into the kindergarten and went to the primary teacher's office.
The classroom of the small class is on the first floor, so when Si Tian approached, she saw the two children standing inside through the window.
Ji Zhile was a little shorter than the boy next to him. He stood stubbornly with his fists clenched. Although he was a little blocked by the tree and couldn't see his expression clearly, he could guess what he looked like at the moment.
Si Tian quickened her pace, and as she got closer to the office, she heard the voice of the teacher inside, persuading her: "Ji Zhile, Yu Zihang didn't do it on purpose, can you forgive him? The teacher usually said that students would have conflicts at school. Yes, be generous."
The boy named Yu Zihang said: "That's right, I am willing to compensate you, don't be so stingy."
Si Tian stepped into the office and heard Ji Zhile's voice, with a nasal voice and a very stubborn voice: "I don't want yours, I want mine!"
"Ji Zhile." Si Tian said.
Ji Zhile raised his head, and Si Tian finally saw his appearance clearly. His clothes were a little dirty, as if he had fallen down. There were tears in his eyes, but he bit his lips tightly and refused to let them fall. His slightly curly hair was also a little messy. Two small hands pinched the hem of his clothes and clenched them tightly into small fists. This stubborn look was very different from the one who likes to act like a baby and can cry at home.
Hearing her voice, Ji Zhile raised his head, and the moment he saw her, tears flowed down his face, as if he was bullied outside and dared not to cry in order to pretend to be strong, and finally found a backer before he dared to expose himself real emotions.
Ji Zhile ran towards her, hugged her thigh, and said with a sobbing voice, "Mom."
Si Tianxin seemed to be poked by something, she bent down and hugged Ji Zhile's small body, and wiped away his tears: "What's wrong?"
Ji Zhile burst into tears and complained: "I, my things were, he ate them."
Another boy in the office hurriedly said, "I didn't do it on purpose, I apologize to you."
Ji Zhile shook his head, hugged Si Tian even tighter: "No, it's not."
Si Tianxin was sore and soft, she was at a loss for a moment and didn't know how to comfort him. It turned out that when Ji Zhile cried, he ran away and cried alone. Si Tian didn't know that when he cried, people were so soft-hearted.
Teacher Wang said: "Mother Ji Zhile, let me tell you what I learned. Our class exchanged stickers for prizes today. Ji Zhile is the child with the most stickers in the class, so he exchanged for the one with the highest points. Snack gift box, but other students accidentally dropped it on the ground while sweeping the floor. Yu Zihang also exchanged for snacks today, but took the wrong one. When school was over in the afternoon, Ji Zhile found that his snacks were missing and came to tell me that I was in class After investigation, I found out that Yu Zihang accidentally ate it. Now Yu Zihang is willing to pay Ji Zhile his snacks, but Ji Zhile is not willing. The two children had a little dispute, and Yu Zihang accidentally pushed Ji Zhile away. After a while, Ji Zhile also pushed back, and the two children fell down."
Si Tian asked Ji Zhile: "Is that so?"
Ji Zhile nodded, then shook his head: "He didn't accidentally eat my snacks on purpose."
Yu Zihang said: "I'm not, your snack fell on the ground, I thought it was mine, so I ate it."
Ji Zhile wiped away tears, and his words were clear and logical: "Our snacks are different, so you won't admit your mistake!"
"I didn't mean it, Ji Zhile slandered me!" Yu Zihang also yelled, and just as he was talking, another woman in formal attire also stepped into the office: "Teacher, what happened?"
Yu Zihang ran towards the woman: "Mom!"
Pointing at Ji Zhile, he said, "He slandered me!"
Ji Zhile shook her head and grabbed Si Tian's hand. Although her eyes were still red, she was not afraid at all after having a backer: "I didn't, you did it on purpose! Only I exchanged for a gift box of snacks, yours is different from mine !"
Yu Zihang said: "I didn't pay attention when I was eating."
Seeing that the two children were about to quarrel again, the parents of both sides stopped them in time.
"Listen to the teacher."
Teacher Wang could only tell the story again.
After listening, Yu Zihang's mother frowned and accused her child: "Have you apologized for eating the wrong food?"
Yu Zihang said: "I said I'm sorry, I didn't mean it."
Yu Zihang's mother immediately went on a long story: "Then others are not willing to forgive you now, it depends on what you do, even if you didn't do it on purpose, but you did something wrong, don't think that everyone outside is your good friend and will follow you To be reasonable, I will forgive you just because you apologize. My mother told you at home that you must be serious in school and get along with your classmates. Everyone is different. When you have conflicts with others, it is difficult for your mother to deal with it. of."
Yu Zihang said aggrievedly: "I would give him my own snacks instead, but he doesn't want to."
Yu Zihang's mother said: "Whether you are willing or not is someone else's business. It would be wrong for you to do it first. Originally, you accidentally ate something wrong, apologized and paid for it. That's how it ended, but you pushed someone. Reasonable things have become unreasonable, if the teacher doesn’t criticize who you criticize, who will others turn to if they don’t ask you?”
After finishing speaking, Yu Zihang's mother looked at Teacher Wang and said, "I'm sorry, Teacher, for troubling you. It was originally a small matter between children. It's normal to stumble over eating the wrong food. I didn't expect it to become like this. We Yu Zihang usually stay at home. I'm a little careless, I've told him many times, he must have been careless when he ate the wrong food this time, how does Ji Zhile's mother want us to compensate, although it's a matter between children, we parents all come Yes, adults must be satisfied."
Hearing Yu Zihang's mother's words, Ji Zhile looked at Si Tian helplessly.
He was still young and didn't quite understand why Yu Zihang's mother was clearly criticizing Yu Zihang, but he felt aggrieved when he heard it.
Si Tian squeezed the child's hand, her lips curled slightly, but there was no smile in her eyes, she looked at Yu Zihang's mother.
Yu Zihang's mother's words directly defined Ji Zhile as an unreasonable child. It seems that Yu Zihang apologized and made amends when he did something wrong. Ji Zhile must accept it. If he doesn't accept it, it's Ji Zhile's fault. Not right.
The last words directly revealed that her child was just careless, and Ji Zhile was stingy, and she, as a mother, would not hesitate to ask for compensation.
Si Tian spoke slowly, and asked the teacher: "Mr. Wang, I want to ask what kind of snacks are in the snack gift box that Ji Zhile exchanged for?"
Teacher Wang said: "They are all favorites of children. There are chocolates, potato chips, and two super eggs. The main reason is that this is the last snack gift box, otherwise I can give Ji Zhile a new one."
Ji Zhile shook her head: "I want the gift box of snacks I exchanged for myself."
Si Tian said: "Mother Yu Zihang, did you hear, this is Ji Zhile's request. As a parent, I naturally have to satisfy the child's request, and it would be fine if I compensate Ji Zhile with the same thing."
Yu Zihang immediately said: "I only ate one super egg, and the others remained untouched."
Ji Zhile said: "You touched it, I don't want it."
Just as Yu Zihang's mother was about to speak, Si Tian stepped forward and said, "Ji Zhile did nothing wrong with this matter from the very beginning. Yu Zihang ate Ji Zhile's snacks, even if he was not careful, Ji Zhile would have done something wrong." The right not to forgive doesn't mean he must forgive if someone apologizes, Yu Zihang's mother probably wouldn't have such a naive idea."
Si Tian smiled and looked.
Yu Zihang's mother's expression was a little stiff: "Of course."
Si Tian said: "Besides, Ji Zhile has always asked for his gift box of snacks back. Even if Yu Zihang is willing to compensate Ji Zhile, the compensation does not meet his requirements, so Ji Zhile refused."
Ji Zhile nodded: "Yes."
He felt that what his mother said was right, and that her mother did not criticize him.
He was very afraid that his mother would let him accept an apology, because the teacher said in class that if he did something wrong, he should say sorry, and other students would forgive you, but Ji Zhile didn't want to forgive.
He looked up at his mother, listened to his mother's words, and gradually straightened his chest. He was not wrong. He just wanted to get back his snack gift box. Only the stickers he had saved for a long time could be exchanged for the snack gift box.
"I also told Ji Zhile to get along with classmates at home. Today I think Ji Zhile did it. Even if his things were eaten by others, he didn't beat anyone or curse. Instead, Yu Zihang pushed Ji Zhile, have you apologized for pushing this person?"
Yu Zihang's mother pushed her son: "Did you apologize?"
Yu Zihang said, "I'm sorry, Ji Zhile, I shouldn't have pushed you."
Ji Zhile said: "It's okay, it's okay for you to push me, but it's okay for you to eat my food."
Si Tian immediately said: "Ji Zhile is a reasonable child. He has a say and is magnanimous. Even if he is pushed down and his clothes are dirty, he says it's okay. This is the real reason."
Ji Zhile was a little embarrassed by his mother's praise. He just felt that it was okay to be pushed a little. He didn't stand still. It's just that his clothes were dirty and he could wash them at home. So it's okay, but the gift box snacks relation.
His mother spoke too well of him. Is he really such an excellent child in his mother's heart?
Ji Zhile clenched Si Tian's little finger, feeling that she really was.
Si Tian continued: "Today I also caused trouble for Teacher Wang. Since Yu Zihang's mother is here, the final treatment must satisfy both parents and children. Ji Zhile hopes to get a complete gift box of snacks as compensation. Me and Ji Zhile thinks the same, how about you, Yu Zihang's mother?"
Yu Zihang's mother didn't have the righteous words at the beginning, she still straightened her waist and said, "Of course, I will take Yu Zihang to buy it later, and I will ask Yu Zihang to compensate Ji Zhile tomorrow."
Si Tian asked Ji Zhile: "Are you willing?"
Ji Zhile nodded, and asked: "Yu Zihang's mother can also buy some for Yu Zihang, Yu Zihang likes the super eggs, but this time I can't eat mine, wait for Yu Zihang to pay for the snack gift box tomorrow." Give it to me, and I'm willing to forgive Yu Zihang."
Si Tian tried to hold back her laughter, she never thought that her son would be quite eccentric when he spoke seriously, this is a typical green tea that should be kept on adults, he likes everything, but he can’t eat mine anymore, Forgive you... But Ji Zhile spoke so seriously that it was impossible to refute.
Sure enough, Yu Zihang's mother's face turned ugly, and she still said, "Thank you, kid."
Even if this matter ended like this, they bid farewell to the teacher, Yu Zi and his son left first, and when Si Tian took Ji Zhile to leave, the teacher stopped him.
Teacher Wang, a young girl, said to Si Tian: "Mother Ji Zhile, Ji Zhile is very good at school, you educated well."
She is just a girl who just graduated and came out to teach. The school is very good, so she was able to become a teacher in Huahua Kindergarten. Most of the children in the kindergarten are very cute, but there are also many things that happen in normal times. This is the first big thing that Teacher Wang has to deal with. matter.
In her eyes, if one accidentally ate something wrong, an apology and compensation would be enough, but the other party was unwilling to forgive, and a lot of troubles happened. Teacher Wang also found it very troublesome and felt a little displeased.
But after listening to the words of the two parents, Mr. Wang has a new view. The kindergarten now teaches children to forgive when others apologize. It is to better handle conflicts between children and facilitate management. It is too wronged to say, forgiveness is everyone's right.
And what Yu Zihang's mother said just now, Teacher Wang also heard something wrong. On the surface, she was criticizing Yu Zihang, but she was actually talking about Ji Zhile. Ji Zhile is usually very cute in kindergarten, and she looks clean. Bai Shengsheng, with curly hair is even more cute, not to mention his pleasing personality, everyone likes children who are more lively and talkative, and now he has been wronged again, but he still forgives Yu Zihang for pushing others, which is even more lovable .
Thinking about it more carefully, Ji Zhile exchanged the only gift box of snacks, which is very special, and should be easy to recognize even if he made a mistake, but Yu Zihang insisted that he didn't pay attention when eating, it was careless, and the teacher couldn't help it. Finding out the exact thoughts in Yu Zihang's heart, he could only try his best to mediate, and let the parents of both parties come when there was no other way.
It's just that whether Yu Zihang did it on purpose or not, the teacher can only listen to the child's words, it is impossible to directly insist on his inner thoughts, but everyone has a steelyard in their hearts, and they will be biased towards one person.
Hearing what the teacher said, Ji Zhile nodded immediately, and looked at Si Tian: "Mom, I'm very good."
Si Tian rubbed his hair: "Thank you teacher."
"Too polite." Teacher Wang bent down and said to Ji Zhile again, "Ji Zhile was wronged today, you did a good job, the teacher and your mother are very supportive of you."
Ji Zhile grabbed Si Tian's hand shyly. Although he usually had a carefree and lively appearance, he was a three-year-old child who was praised by his mother and teacher. Looking at the teacher with bright eyes, she said childishly, "Tomorrow I will forgive Yu Zihang."
Teacher Wang said, "You can forgive if you want."
Ji Zhile nodded: "Goodbye, Teacher Wang."
Si Tian took Ji Zhile home. In the car, Ji Zhile was very happy. Next to Si Tian, he grabbed her hand and pressed it, as if playing a game. He liked today's mother very much. When he was young, he felt that his mother was amazing, and finally asked Yu Zihang to pay for his new gift box of snacks. Ji Zhile was very satisfied.
Ji Zhile said, "Mom, I'm the only one in the class who has a gift box of snacks."
Si Tian said, "Then you are great."
Ji Zhile happily shook his legs hanging in the air: "I have saved stickers for a long time, and I didn't go to redeem the prizes last time."
"You like prizes so much?"
Ji Zhile said, "There are Otto eggs inside, which are very pretty."
Si Tian can see that Ji Zhile really looks at the packaging, and the milk I chose last time also has a good-looking packaging.
Looking at the scenery outside, Ji Zhile realized that this was not the way to the elementary school, and immediately asked, "Mom, aren't we going to pick up my brother?"
Si Tian glanced at the time, it was past five o'clock, and Ji Ningyi should have been picked up by the housekeeper and was about to arrive home, Si Tian said: "Grandpa Lu is going to pick up brother, if you wait for us, brother will definitely wait for a long time .”
Ji Zhile nodded: "I'm going home to tell my brother that I can only give him the Ultra Egg tomorrow."
"You want to give it to brother?" Si Tian asked.
Ji Zhile immediately covered his mouth, and when he rolled his eyes, he seemed to have slipped his mouth.
But now that her mother knew about it, Ji Zhile felt that there was no need to hide it, and said, "This is a secret between me and my brother, my brother sleeps with me, I lent the doll to my brother, and returned it to my brother Otto. "
Si Tian finally knew what Ji Zhile whispered to Ji Ningyi, and she was a little funny: "Are you sure brother will like it?"
"Of course!" Ji Zhile was very confident, "There is no one who doesn't like Otto eggs!"
"Mom, you must like it when you see it."
Si Tian couldn't bear Fu Jizhi's pleasure, so she nodded: "That's right."
After the mother and son returned home, they found Ji Ningyi standing by the villa door, as if waiting for them.
Ji Zhile was excited now, so she rushed towards him: "Brother, let me tell you that the teacher and mother praised me today."
Ji Ningyi also smiled at his younger brother.
Si Tian walked behind and asked, "How long has Ning Yi been back?"
Ji Ning glanced at the time and said, "Thirty minutes."
Si Tian explained: "Something happened to Zhile in the kindergarten today. I was a little late to deal with it, so I asked Grandpa Lu to pick you up."
Ji Zhile immediately said, "Let me tell brother!"
He was so excited that he babbled and uttered the matter, and finally leaned close to Ji Ning's ear, lowered his voice and said, "Brother, mom is so beautiful today, and she is so gentle, brother, I think mom really likes us. "