Chapter 522: grow toward the sun
It was already dusk when we came out of Mrs. Hou's yard, and the evening breeze was blowing the lit lanterns one by one.
Wen Jiuxiao and Yu Zhi walked side by side. Since returning to the capital, Wen Jiuxiao has been very busy. The time between husband and wife is all he squeezed out. Sometimes the two of them are in the middle of talking, and he has to go to other things .
Rarely have such a leisurely time, Wen Jiuxiao couldn't help but hold Yu Zhi's hand tightly, and asked her, "Why did you stop me just now?"
"If you kneel down, you have to take responsibility for the trouble you caused. Your daughter has been too complacent recently. It's good to keep her skin tight."
Wen Jiuxiao was surprised, "Did she make you angry again?"
Yu Zhi snorted, "She doesn't dare to make me angry, you can't even imagine what she's been doing recently? She got into a fight with her grandmother, deliberately trying to annoy her grandmother. You said she was so young and temperamental?" as big?"
Wen Jiuxiao laughed, "Isn't this following you?"
Yu Zhi glared at him, "Nonsense, when did I get angry?"
"Yes, yes, yes, you are not very angry, and your temper is all on me."
"dislike me?"
"Don't dare!" Wen Jiuxiao's eyes were gentle and doting.
The servants had never seen such a third master before, and they all lowered their heads and dared not make a sound.
Wen Jiuxiao said again: "I heard that the nanny who teaches girls how to behave is very strict, our Huahua..." He was reluctant to let his daughter suffer.
"There are no rules, and it's not good for a girl to be too independent. Especially because she has such sharp edges and corners, and she doesn't know how to hide. Sooner or later, she will hurt herself." Yu Zhi sees it clearly, "I want to live a happy life." If you want to be comfortable, you have to learn the rules, learn the rules well, learn thoroughly, and learn better than anyone else." This is how to take advantage of loopholes!
"I hope she can be a person who is round on the outside and square on the inside." The rules are not bad in front of people, and she insists in her heart, "As for what you are worried about... Ha, you don't have to worry at all, your daughter can't suffer no matter where she is."
Wen Jiuxiao thought about his daughter's temper, and it was true.
Back in the yard, I saw Huahua sitting at the desk writing, and Yu Zhi hurriedly shouted: "Mom!" Her big eyes were flickering, and she looked very uneasy.
Yu Zhi walked up to her and sat down, first read the handwriting she wrote, and it was worse than usual, showing that he was restless.
Yu Zhi intentionally let out a long sigh, but didn't speak. Huahua really looked like a frightened bird, "Mother, is grandma very angry? Are you going to punish me severely?"
In the past few days, Huahua has been used to bickering with her grandmother. At first, she didn't take today's matter to heart, but her grandmother asked someone to invite her father and mother away, and she came back after a long time away. Going up the roof was a very, very big mistake with Grandma.
Yu Zhi sighed again, nodded, and said in a heavy tone, "Huahua, mother can't help you this time either."
Huahua panicked, hugged Yu Zhi's arm, "No, mother, you want to save me, you are only my own daughter."
Yu Zhi wanted to laugh, but he had to hold back, "Who made you disobedient? You have forgotten what I told you before! I let you pretend to be a front, and you are all exposed, Jing Li is different from Shanyun County, it’s too out of line. In life, you must abide by the rules. Everyone is in this circle, if you run out, you are a different kind, and no one will play with you. "
"Gu Huaiwei next door is willing to play with me." Huahua whispered.
"You still have the nerve to mention the next door? Your mother kept it from your grandmother's ears about your fight with the boys next door. If she knew, she would have punished you long ago. Huahua, you have to know that there are many rules in Beijing. If you fight with someone in Shanyun County, that's nothing. But in Beijing, it's a very serious mistake."
"Mother, how did grandma punish me?"
Yu Zhi didn't answer her question, but said: "Huahua, do you know how Beijing treats girls who behave out of line?"
Huahua shook her head, and Yu Zhi said softly: "One is to marry out, of course this kind of marriage is not the right marriage, but to marry out of town, far away, out of sight and out of mind, from now on it will be as if there is no such girl. One is to be sent to a nunnery to become a monk, to eat vegetarian food and chant sutras to serve the Buddha for the rest of his life."
There is another kind of sudden death, afraid of scaring the girl, Yu Zhi didn't say anything.
Even if it was the first two kinds, Huahua's little face turned pale, "Mother, tell me, is grandma punishing me to kneel in the ancestral hall? Kneeling for three days and three nights, neither eating nor sleeping."
Which story book did you read this from?
Yu Zhi’s mouth twitched, and finally he felt the same way as Wen Jiuxiao, “That’s not true. Your grandmother said that she would ask a nanny to teach you how to behave.”
"Standing in the sun with a bowl on your head, the kind that beats your palms and slaps your calves if you don't learn well?" Huahua's voice trembled, "Mom, let's not do it!"
"You are learning the rules, not being punished." Yu Zhi rolled her eyes.
"What if I don't study well?" Isn't it impossible to escape punishment?
"Why can't you learn well? The so-called rules are nothing more than sitting, lying, walking, talking and doing things. How can you not learn well when you are so smart?" Yu Zhi encouraged her, "Huahua, mother doesn't ask much of you. You learn... like your mother. That's it."
"Like a mother?" Huahua was a little confused.
Yu Zhi nodded to her, "Yes, like mother. Think about it, mother is different outside and at home, in front of your father and you, in front of your grandmother, in front of Gu Huaiwei's mother?" She inspired with.
Huahua's eyes lit up immediately, "I see, mother, I understand what you mean. You told me a long time ago that you have to pretend in front of outsiders. Oh, I forgot all about it when I entered Beijing." A very upset look.
"I'll just say that my daughter is smart, you see, that's clear." Yu Zhi hugged her daughter and boasted, so that the corners of Huahua's mouth turned up. Yu Zhiyu said earnestly: "So you still have to learn the rules. Only after you learn the rules can you master the rules and make use of them. You have to learn from this lesson. You went to anger your grandmother every day, but she didn't say she would punish you. It means that although your behavior is not right, you can't find much wrong. Your grandmother is going to hit you with a feather duster, but if you don't climb the house or you run around the yard, she will at most punish you. , I will never make a ruthless attempt to correct you."
"Of course, mother doesn't think you look crooked, you are really temperamental." Yu Zhi touched her small face, feeling very sorry for her.
Hua Hua nodded submissively, "Don't worry, mother, I will definitely learn the rules." It doesn't matter even if the nanny asks her to stand on top of the bowl, she is a martial arts practitioner, and she can stand for a day.
"Really? Mom really doesn't want to be invited by your grandmother to ask 'how did you teach your daughter' again, it's too embarrassing." Yu Zhi behaved miserably in front of her daughter.
Huahua giggled, "Really, I swear, I promise that I won't get you scolded again."
"Words are not proven, but high-fives are evidence."
"Okay, high-five! Words are guaranteed to count."
Mother and daughter smiled and clapped hands, both very happy.
Yu Zhi hugged his daughter, with a gentle smile on the corner of his mouth. Little flower, mother also hopes that you can grow wildly and unrestrainedly, but you alone cannot fight against the whole world!
What Niang can do for you is to put on protective armor for you, teach you "the way of square and circle", and then grow towards the sun.
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