Chapter 659: Chapter 730-731: Happiness is earned by yourself
The time until Jasmine Group's holiday is very short. Even though Yang Hao met all four women together, he still felt that the time was too short.
On Sunday night, Yang Hao accompanied Qiu Yunzhen to her grandparents' house for dinner. Mr. Qiu knew that Yang Hao was going back to Tancheng, and he also knew that it would be very dangerous for him to go back, so he called Yang Hao to the study and asked a few questions. .
While Yang Hao was chatting with Mr. Qiu, Grandma Qiu was also quietly talking with Qiu Yunzhen.
"Yunzhen, what's going on with you, it's been a few months, and the two of you are still not together?"
Qiu Yunzhen nodded embarrassingly: "He hasn't been here for the past three months."
Grandma Qiu held Qiu Yunzhen's hand very sadly, and asked in a low voice: "What is going on with you now, tell grandma, what is your plan, you can't just drag it on like this, you I’m going to Tancheng for the festival soon, I’m afraid I don’t know what kind of joke I’m going to make, if your grandpa finds out by then, I’m afraid your grandpa will be furious.”
Qiu Yunzhen opened her mouth, but hesitated for a moment, then lowered her head and said, "Grandma, don't ask."
When Grandma Qiu heard what Qiu Yunzhen said, she suddenly became a little angry, and reprimanded in a low voice: "You are our only granddaughter, your marriage was also arranged for you by your grandfather, we don't care about you, who cares about you, grandma is someone who has experienced it , I’m not an outsider, if there’s anything I can’t say to grandma, if you tell me, maybe I can give you some advice.”
Qiu Yunzhen struggled and hesitated, don't look at her vigorous and resolute at work, she is the female president admired and feared by everyone in the company, but emotionally, she is really the youngest of the young. Although she felt that the matter between herself and Yang Hao It is true that we should leave it to the two of us to solve it ourselves, but I also know that grandma will give me some advice. After all, as Grandma Qiu said, she is someone who has experienced it, so she must know a little more about it.
Qiu Yunzhen hesitated for a while, and finally couldn't help but whispered: "Maybe it has something to do with my attitude towards him before... He, he said there are women outside."
Grandma Qiu's face suddenly changed, becoming very serious: "There is a woman outside, is it real or fake?"
Qiu Yunzhen also said worriedly: "He said it, but he didn't say who it was. Last time he said it before he left Zhonghai for Tancheng, I don't know if it really happened or he just wanted to I left him, that's why I said that..."
"Leave him?" Grandma Qiu became more and more confused by Qiu Yunzhen's words: "What's going on, why do I suddenly feel that you have a lot of things to hide, and you didn't tell us?"
Now that this is all said, Qiu Yunzhen also went all out, and explained her relationship with Yang Hao in a low voice. When Grandma Qiu heard about the relationship between Qiu Yunzhen and Yang Hao, she didn't know how to evaluate it for a while, and was angry again He said helplessly again: "You guys, it's really..."
Qiu Yunzhen grabbed Grandma Qiu's hand and shook it very girlishly: "Grandma, you gave me some advice, what should I do now."
Grandma Qiu sighed, and asked seriously: "Before I give you an idea, I want to ask you, do you really like Yang Hao now?"
Qiu Yunzhen nodded without hesitation: "He looks very lazy, as if he doesn't care about anything, and he has some little habits that I don't like, but as time goes by, I also know what he is. In fact, I think, we sleep now. Together, he also endured very hard, but maybe because he felt sorry for me, or because he didn't want me to regret it in the future, so he endured it like this."
Grandma Qiu pondered for a while, then said softly: "According to what you say, no matter what, he is a man of love and righteousness. Maybe now he really has a woman outside, but he is sincere to you. "
Qiu Yunzhen sighed: "Yes, but I am already like this, isn't it enough?"
Grandma Qiu looked at Qiu Yunzhen kindly: "Want to hear Grandma's opinion?"
Qiu Yunzhen shook her head as a matter of course, said all these, didn't she just want to hear the advice from grandma?
"As a woman, everyone hopes to find a man who is devoted to himself and treats himself as a treasure all his life, but in fact, it will never be so perfect, and there will always be various problems. Marrying your grandfather was introduced by someone else, and we got married without even meeting each other. If we want to love like the love you young people talk about now, we didn’t even know what the person we married looked like, let alone love. , but I am very fortunate to meet your grandpa in my whole life. Although we have quarreled and argued, your grandpa has been very kind to me all his life..."
"Now the times are different from before. In the past, as long as a rich man always had three wives and four concubines, otherwise he would not be able to hold his head up in front of others. Now that equality between men and women is advocated, everyone has more choices. They can choose to pursue or accept their own life. , but no matter what, I always feel that to find a man, you must find a man who is kind and righteous to you."
Qiu Yunzhen heard grandma say such a big thing, but she was a little confused: "Grandma, what do you mean by saying that? Should I persevere or give up?"
Grandma Qiu sighed and said, "I can't give you a specific suggestion. I can only tell you that happiness is earned by yourself. Since you chose that method at the beginning, you have to pay for your own method." The price, if you think he is a good man, then you have to fight for it. There are fewer and fewer good men in the world, especially men like Yang Hao who have family background, ability, no bad temper, affection and righteousness. , Missing it may be a lifetime, because of your beauty, your money, maybe you can find a man who treats you wholeheartedly, but in the end which one is happier and which one is what you want more, you need to weigh... …”
After a slight pause, Grandma Qiu narrowed her eyes and said with a smile: "Besides, my granddaughter is so beautiful and capable, and she is still his wife. Could it be that she can't even earn money from an outside woman?"
When Qiu Yunzhen heard Grandma Qiu's last words, she finally understood what Grandma Qiu meant: "Grandma, do you mean to let me fight?"
"Of course we have to fight!" Grandma Qiu knocked Qiu Yunzhen on the head resentfully: "Don't you think that happiness falls from the sky? Happiness is all earned by yourself. The relationship between women and men is a War is also an art. You need to use different methods for different men. You need to know what your man thinks, what he wants, and where is his bottom line? You can even quarrel without hurting the bottom line of your relationship. This is something you need to think about yourself. If you understand everything about him, happiness will often come naturally."
Qiu Yunzhen thought about her grandma's words and whispered, "I understand."