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"Kangkanglong."
"They are all dragons, but you can see that the state of the dragons is different from the beginning to the end, so I remind you that there are six dragons without a leader."
"However, there must be different performances at different stages. It cannot be said that you have only one state. Being headless does not mean being headless, but it is not a fixed method. We now use the idiom "Quanlongwu head", the context and semantics are completely different from ancient times. different."
"To explain Qian Gua, first say "Yong Jiu", what is Yong Jiu?The Qian hexagram uses nine, and the hexagram has only one sentence: Seeing a group of dragons without a leader, it is auspicious. "
"The idiom that the dragons have no leaders comes from this."
"It means that when you behave like a group of dragons without a leader, you will be lucky, but you can't eat chicken tonight."
Audience: Hahaha...
The first thousand four hundred and five chapters say Qian Gua
"Before this, I believe everyone might be a little strange to hear it, because in our current inherent thinking, Qunlongwuzhuan is a derogatory term, which means that a team has no leader, and a company has no boss, so it is called Qunlongwuzhu."
"However, it can be seen that it has been used wrongly for thousands of years, and the result is that it is wrong again and again. Now that it is wrong, it can only be wrong. What is wrong is also right. What was originally wrong is now true."
"This is the so-called Tao of Yin and Yang. Tao is all-encompassing and inclusive."
"If it's right, seeing a group of dragons without a leader is bad luck, not good luck."
"Then it means that even if you are a dragon, you have to make different adjustments at different stages. Even if you are a dragon, you can't stay the same level. If you don't adjust the dragon, you will die miserably."
"Using our current words, life is a phased adjustment."
"Doing this well is "seeing the dragons without a head", so if you don't read the Book of Changes, you will not know the meaning of the original meaning of the Book of Changes. This is one of the reasons why the Book of Changes is difficult to read. Sometimes it is terrible to misunderstand or distort the ancient words. Things are a thousand miles away. "
"To be more specific, Qian Gua divides a person's life into six stages."
"A stage is about 20 years, but this is just a reference. It varies from person to person. Some people only have a few years in this stage, and decades in another stage. Some people may stop at the third stage and never advance to the fourth stage. possible."
"It's the six words I said earlier."
"The first stage is called "submergence". To hide means not to show. "
"The second stage is called "now". In the workplace, such as a company meeting, we Chinese people are smart and usually hide it first, and then show it. He will not show it right away, because the real protagonist usually appears last. of. "
"The third stage is called "vigilance". If you don't behave occasionally, it's okay to be vigilant, but remember a word, as long as you start to behave, if you are not vigilant, your shortcomings, even those you don't know about, will be there. It is exposed all the time, and then becomes the Achilles heel for others to attack you. "
"The fourth stage is called "jumping". At this time, you have to find a way to find an opportunity to jump to the dragon gate. You work hard for this opportunity. Once you jump to the dragon gate, you will be worth a million times. If you can't jump, forget it. Then Don't even think about falling down. "
"This stage is a turning point in life. It is amazing to jump up to the next stage."
"The fifth stage is called "flying", but the Book of Changes warns us at this time that when you develop to the fifth stage, you probably have enough, don't go too far, and you will become high-pitched if you go too far. "
"The sixth stage is called "Kang", Kanglong has regrets, this is the last stage of Qian Gua, the last stage must be Kanglong has regrets. "
"Your business is running very well, so you should stop blindly seeking to become bigger and stronger. It's not that you don't want to do it, but stop blindly trying to become bigger and stronger. The bigger you do, the more you can take care of , but people have limitations, and there are always times when there is always a hundred secrets and one sparse.”
"A hundred density and one sparseness are like a thousand miles away from an ant's nest. If this continues, there will be the danger of over-expansion and bankruptcy. Why is it difficult for a large truck to brake or make a sharp turn? It is too big, and you will definitely overturn when you turn a corner. Dragons have reason to regret."
Li Linfei continued to talk eloquently: "The line in the first line of the Qian Gua is "Don't use Qianlong", which means very clearly. In the first stage of life, people's abilities are limited and they need to hide first, but "Don't use" is What's the meaning? "
"A person's "diving" is to be fully prepared, not to say that if he does not perform, he will not perform. The word "wu" does not mean "no". You should not use it when you are "diving dragon". This kind of saying It is wrong, not to use is to use it from the standpoint of not being used, and not to use is to use it not to be used. "
"In this way, everyone will understand that when a Chinese person says he has an opinion, he first says that he has no opinion. If you say you have no opinion, people will not ask you, which means that you will not listen to what you say, so what are you talking about?"
"If in the workplace, the boss asks his subordinates if you have any opinions? Most of them say no. If the boss asks again, just say no. If you still say no, the boss asks you again, say! You just say it. It's the third time. When did you say it? If you don’t say it, you won’t have a chance to say it later.”
"Does it feel pushy?"
"Why do Chinese people push and procrastinate? When relatives send you red envelopes during Chinese New Year and holidays, you say no to them in various ways, but the most conspicuous position is to put your pockets with your hands, and you are very sincere."
As soon as this remark came out, the audience roared with laughter, the picture was so daring and too real, the barrage burst out laughing, and they expressed their inexplicable lying down.
On the stage, Li Linfei laughed with everyone for a while, then continued to laugh with ease while holding the microphone: "Why?"
"You may say, hypocritical! Push and drag!"
"In fact, many people don't understand push and delay. This is to push to the most reasonable person, not to delay time and shirk responsibility. That is wrong. Pushing and procrastinating is pushing to the most suitable person through this behavior."
"So usually when a company is in a meeting, we will listen to others first, and you will have a sense after listening first. Oh, what they say is not as good as my planning idea. If there is a sense, then I will say Now, is it reasonable not to talk at this time? Do you still want to get promoted and raise your salary?"
"If I heard others say that he had a good plan first, I thought I'd fuck it up. Fortunately, my brother didn't speak first. If I said it first, it would be miserable. If I lose face, it will become his foil. The boss will do something later. I had a chance at something, but immediately thought that he did it better than me, and I didn't have a chance."
"So you see, what a favorable thinking?"
"Then why do you want to be the first? Now they say that they must fight and lead, but they actually misunderstood the meaning of Taoist Lao Tzu. Lao Tzu wants to be the first. Taoism is very active, but he is fighting for the first place from the standpoint of not competing for the first." .”
"And when you express your opinion, you stand on the standpoint of no opinion, so that you don't talk nonsense. The highest level of arguing is the arguing without arguing. Students go back and slowly understand the meaning of "hidden". The Tao needs to be enlightened. . "
While Li Linfei was talking on the stage, Li Bingling was also watching the live broadcast in the executive president's office of Xiangzhong Future Technology Group.
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Li Bingling looked at Li Linfei on the screen, and saw that the latter was as good as he was, and continued: "And the meaning of "latent" is to show off, if you don't show off, why are you still latent?There is no need. "
"If you don't want it, you want it. One yin and one yang are called Tao. Wanting and not wanting are linked together, and they will never be separated."
Hearing what he said, Li Bingling always felt weird, always thinking about that aspect of things, it was over, it was over, it was really over, she had been completely brought down by him, and her mind was polluted.
On the other side, Li Linfei smiled lightly and humorously: "So if you tell a Westerner about this, he will be immediately confused. Westerners must clearly distinguish between "want" and "don't". , the Westerner nodded, but if you tell him not to, it means yes, or no, he is dumbfounded on the spot. "
Audience: Hahaha
"I don't know if the crooked nuts are watching, I really want to know how they feel."
"I have a crooked friend, and he is really confused now."
"But you tell the Huaxia people that he will understand quickly. We all know that the Huaxia people never say a word, only half of it, and the other half is in their hearts. If you want to know what a Huaxia person says in his heart, you have to rely on enlightenment." , and consciousness."
"So there is no obstacle for Chinese people to communicate with Chinese people, but when Chinese people communicate with Westerners, they will be confused. We will not, we are tolerant."
"I will just give a few examples that everyone is familiar with, and they will definitely smile when they hear it."
"For example: when you say that you don't judge a hero by success or failure, there is still a sentence in your heart...the winner and loser; when you say that rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests, there is still a sentence in your heart...the near water and the tower first get the moon."
"When you said that you should be humble and courteous, you still have a word in your heart... Do your part."
Audience: Smile knowingly. "
"Haha, right? You see, everyone is smiling slightly instead of laughing out loud, which means that they understand. Because we are all Chinese, so the communication is very pleasant. When we say it, oh, we smile knowingly."
"So don't use the first stage of Qianlong, let's take an example. Zhuge Liang has been diving for 27 years. He came out of the mountain at the age of 27. Once he appeared, he was shocked to heaven.
"If he digs the soil and grows vegetables all day in Nanyang, Liu Bei asks him to come out and use snake skin?"