Chapter 645: Using force to suppress others?
Qin Suyun looked at her sister-in-law in silence.
She used to be very smart, but what kind of words are these?
Xiao Nuan has a special status in the Song family. She is not the one who has the final say.
And Shu Xiang's sister-in-law is the deputy director of Zhilan Garment Factory.
Although she is the deputy director, Xiao Nuan is indirectly the superior of Shu Xiang's sister-in-law.
Do you want Xiao Nuan to use her power to suppress others?
Whether others agree or not, this is suspected of bullying.
Besides, public is public and private is private. If you are interested, can't you find a chance to go to the Shu family?
Even if the deal fails, there is still benevolence and righteousness, not to mention for the marriage of children?
Wouldn't it be more sincere for you to go in person?
A delicate person like Shu Xiang's mother will definitely not roll your face.
Don't you have to return the things to others? Don't do the equivalent exchange, just buy some gifts.
If you don't want to spend money, there are many at home.
After getting along for a while, your daughter is arrogant and domineering. Don't worry about whether Shuxiang has any problems. That's what Shu's mother should worry about. You apologize for your daughter. To be honest, this is not called bowing your head. Really, given the current situation of our family, doing such a thing is really not bowing your head.
Ask and talk. Even if you can't become relatives, you can't become enemies.
After thinking about it, Qin Suyun still told Wang Mengdan.
Wang Mengdan's face changed again and again.
What he said... is indeed reasonable, but it also makes me feel uncomfortable.
Wang Mengdan: "Sister-in-law, I understand what you said, but it's not that. Everything is going well for you now, Huai'an is doing well, and your future daughter-in-law will also make you proud.
But I won't compare this. Huai'an and Huaiming are not the same people. The two are two years apart. When Huaiming couldn't do addition and subtraction within ten, Huai'an had already graduated from elementary school. How can they be compared?
I have never compared the two children together. This is unfair to my son.
And my father has reminded me of this many times, and I have always remembered it."
Qin Suyun didn't know what Wang Mengdan wanted to express, but she listened patiently.
Huaiming is now normal, and he doesn't have any inferiority complex or the mentality of being inferior to his cousin.
So Wang Mengdan is telling the truth.
"...Sister-in-law, I'm not telling you this about the two brothers. They get along very well.
Even though Huai'an is in a high position, he doesn't act superior to Huaiming.
Huaiming doesn't feel inferior to Huai'an. It's best for the two brothers to get along like this.
But this is a family, so it's okay. But once it involves outsiders, it's different.
Sister-in-law, don't say I'm too much. When you didn't see Song Yu Nuan, you thought Song Yu Nuan was not worthy of Huai'an. Didn't you feel uncomfortable?
At that time, you thought Qian Anna was so good. Tell me, what would you do if you encountered something like me?"
Qin Suyun felt that she was holding back a breath in her heart and couldn't spit it out or swallow it.
This person is getting more and more unreasonable.
But as sisters-in-law for so many years, she knows what kind of personality the other person has.
Now that the Gu family has finally settled down, she can't create conflicts with her.
And there is no need.
Qin Suyun smiled and said, "You are bullying me. You are right. When I first knew Song Yu Nuan, I only knew that she was from a rural family and her grades were average. I didn't know anything else.
I could have investigated secretly, but I didn't do that because Huai'an didn't allow it.
I especially respect Huai'an's opinion on this point. If he doesn't let me ask, I won't ask. If he doesn't let me inquire, I won't inquire. I fully respect his opinion.
Speaking of which, if nothing happened to the Qian family, Qian Anna would be the best among the interns in the same group of students. There is no doubt about this.
But that's all.
Mengdan, we sisters-in-law have always lived together. When did you see me calling Anna to create opportunities for the two of us when I came back from Huai'an?
I didn't.
I just kept my views and opinions.
Even if Secretary Fan said how excellent Song Yu Nuan was, I still had this attitude. The important thing is that I will not interfere with my son's choice, and I will not impose my opinions on him.
After I thoroughly understood Xiao Nuan, I still didn't I have told Huai'an my views and opinions.
If you say to think from another's perspective, then I tell you that even if I am not satisfied with Shuxiang, I will not tell others my opinions and opinions, because my opinions and opinions will definitely affect family members.
Besides, the child did not ask for my opinion. He thinks everything is fine. If I say it at this time, it will only add to his troubles. "
Wang Mengdan's face is not very good, but she still said: "But we are mothers. Isn't it too cold and irresponsible to do this?"
"This is not indifference, nor is it irresponsible. From my point of view, this is a kind of respect.
Who hasn't been young? In the most beautiful years, there is always a vigorous love. "
"You are not right to say that. What if the other party is not good, but the child is deceived?"
"Then what do you think is the consequence of breaking up a couple? Isn't it your current state? You see... you regret it and feel that you shouldn't get involved too much. Doesn't this conflict with what I said just now?
Mengdan, you have to admit that Jiaojiao's words are actually what you want to say, but you just borrowed Jiaojiao's mouth. "
This time, Qin Suyun was not polite and told her directly that he was doing it for her own good, but she pointed her finger at him.
Qin Suyun saw that Wang Mengdan's face was even more ugly, so he softened his voice and said, "I understand your mood. You are not an outsider. There is no need for me to use official language and clichés to fool you when I talk to you, so let's put it bluntly, this matter cannot be done Find Xiaonuan, because public is public and private is private.
And you can't go beyond Huai Ming and make the decision privately. Do you know what Huai Ming is thinking now?
If you really care about him, have a good talk with him and see what he wants?
Besides, if you really want the two of you to renew their relationship, you must make sure that Shu Xiang has no grudge against Jiaojiao, otherwise, this will still be a hidden explosive point. "
After saying these words, Qin Suyun patted her shoulder and said to her: "The houses in Huai'an and Xiaonuan have been divided, which is where Mr. Xie lived before, but there are many people watching there, and many are unconvinced. Yes, I have to go and make suggestions to the compound office to publicize the achievements of these two people and let those who are jealous see whether they should live in such a house. "
Song Yunuan looked at the notice posted on the bulletin board of the compound.
This time is a major overhaul of the compound.
We cleared out a lot of people who had too much to eat and occupied, and also allocated houses to those who wanted them.
There are standards for reference, which were decided after several meetings.
How should I put it, those who eat more and occupy more will not be happy, but those who really contribute and work hard without complaining will naturally be full of joy.